Am I being naieve here?


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megatronrules
November 14, 2005, 01:10 PM
I need advice from you guys here on something,Ok here goes. I've been dating an older women for a while now and she recently was evicted from her apartment and moved in with a male "friend". her story is shes doing this to save money for another place thing is she tells me that I'am not allowed there because "he dosen't know me" and dosen't want strange men at his place. Now I'am not pocessive or insecure guys in the least but something here does not sit right with me. If there truly friends and only friend then I don't see why he would care who comes to see her.

Now I'am only 27 but I'am not stupid I'am thinking seriously of just breaking things off with her as I don't like what the f*** is going on here,I know this isn't exactly legel or political but advice is greatly needed ASAP. I want to give her and option and that being. "introduce me to him and tell him were seeing each other,or I have to assume your seeing him behind my back" "as I see no reason why if hes only your friend why your boyfriend can't come over and spend time with you?" sound fair?

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buzz_knox
November 14, 2005, 01:13 PM
This will get locked and you should go ahead and take it to www.armedpolitesociety.com. In the meantime, go with your first thought. If she weren't playing you, she'd invite you over to meet her roomie so you were no longer a "strange man."

WT
November 14, 2005, 01:13 PM
Walk away from the situation. She is taking you for a ride.

Jubei
November 14, 2005, 01:15 PM
I'm not touching this one. With my track record with women, it'd be like Hillary Clinton giving beauty advice to Halle Berry.

Good Luck

Jubei

ibtl

Henry Bowman
November 14, 2005, 01:16 PM
Sounds fair. But also sounds like this GF come with a fair amount of baggage. Can you (are you willing to) carry it for her for the next 60 years or so?


This is a good question to raise over at armedpolitesociety.com.

dasmi
November 14, 2005, 01:16 PM
Get out. Even if she's not cheating on you with this "guy friend" why wouldn't she want to introduce her boyfriend?

Biker
November 14, 2005, 01:18 PM
First off, IBTL.:evil:
Secondly, you should give this woman the boot-yesterday.
Biker

HankB
November 14, 2005, 01:37 PM
I wouldn't continue to date a woman who decided to shack up with another guy.

Preacherman
November 14, 2005, 01:39 PM
Sorry, but WAAAAYY OT for THR.

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