Ok, as some of you may know from a previous post, I am supposed to go hunting for my first time this year. I have been quite excited about it and looking forward to it since the time I decided I wanted to try it. Now, I have to admit, I am having second thoughts. The guy I am going with went out a couple of weekends ago and bagged a four point buck. The other day he was over and handed me a trash bag with a shoulder in it. I have to admit, I felt real funny about that. I am not sure why, but I suddenly thought 'I don't want to eat that' and then immediately after that 'why would I shoot an animal I don't intend to A) eat and/or B) mount for trophy purposes'?
In any case, the last thing I what this thread to turn into is hunter vs. non-hunter bash session. Instead, I would like whatever you all can offer to help me overcome this mental obstacle. I think hunting would be fun. The camping out, hanging out with my close buddies, sitting around the campfire at night, the hours of solitude in nature, reflecting or just thinking about nothing and anything else I have missed (since I really have NO idea what I am talking about). I just think that I should eat what I kill, and if I have no intention of doing that maybe I shouldn't hunt...?
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Mr Weebles
November 2, 2006, 02:50 PM
Personally, I only hunt what I'll eat. If I'm unwilling to kill it, cook it and eat it, I won't shoot at it. Of course, this is up to each hunter. Some hunters go for trophies and that's fine too. To each his own.
But if you're having trouble with the thought of actually harvesting an animal, I'd suggest bringing a camera into the field instead of a gun. This way, you can participate in the other things you mentioned (camping out, hanging with your friends, etc.) without the guilt or personal doubt of shooting an animal.
adobewalls
November 2, 2006, 02:51 PM
Go, enjoy the hunt and if you don't intend to eat it, then give it to someone who will.
On the otherhand, one of my most fond memories from hunting as a young man was after the kill and after we started processing the deer, to take some of the backstrap slice it into medallions and saute in butter and olive oil with a crushed clove of garlic, black pepper, onions and mushrooms. If that doesn't get you past the "shoulder in the sack" thing, then I am not sure I can help.
Nearly everyone "feels" a little funny when you start to process the kill, especially as you open a deer up and see what kind of damage you did to him. That's OK, that's why the Indians had their hunting rituals.
Derek Zeanah
November 2, 2006, 02:54 PM
I have no interest in hunting for the sake of the kill, but I enjoy venison and understand the need to keep the local herd's numbers down from a conservationist's perspective. The only hunting I really enjoy is quail hunting, and unfortunately fire ants are making that less and less available.
I would suggest that if you kill a deer you get it packaged up appropriately and either keep the meat for your own use or give it to someone needy. For the most part it's healthier than what you can buy in the store.
I might end up hunting this year -- depends on whether my father-in-law does or not (if he does we'll get his meat). If I do, then I'll kill it (which I don't mind but my wife wants no part of) and my wife will clean it (which grosses me out but doesn't bother her at all). Prolly though, it'll be another year without a hunt.
das028
November 2, 2006, 03:01 PM
I too only hunt what I can consume, or what others consume. I personally think it is not right to hunt for pure sport or trophies. I have really strong morals when it comes to killing animals. Hell my girlfreind even laughes at me because I wont even smash a bug. Call me what you want, but I just dont feel right doing it.
As far as deer hunting, I dont think I could shoot a deer, unless I was starving of coarse. But thats me. I dont really care if other people do it, if its there thing. Well as long as there not pouching or doing immoral things. And reall I dont have the patience to deer hunt anyway. I do love upland hunting though.
Anyway, if you dont feel comfortable, dont do it. Its not a big deal. I think Mr. Weebles had a very good idea, with the camera thing.
georgeduz
November 2, 2006, 03:09 PM
I dont like taste of it ,so i only jerk the meat.you dont have to eat it if you kill it .you can give it to someone how will eat it.you might want to stew it,
knuckles
November 2, 2006, 03:18 PM
so i only jerk the meat.
I don't suppose you are talking about using 'jerk' seasoning are you?:rolleyes:
DogBonz
November 2, 2006, 03:19 PM
Go, enjoy the hunt and if you don't intend to eat it, then give it to someone who will.
I don't know about in your area, but there are a lot of homeless shelters that will take the deer if properly field dressed. You should look into that. This way, you can go hunting, enjoy all that you are looking forward to, and feel good that not only is the deer going to be eaten, but it will be eaten by thoes who are hungry, and might not have anything to eat.
Just my $0.02
cslinger
November 2, 2006, 03:26 PM
Just do not waste the kill. Like others have said, give to a homeless shelter etc. I am not a hunter myself, love venison though and eventually would like to try. My personal feelings are that you use what you kill, anything else is both wasteful and dishoners the hunt/animal.
Chris
Abby
November 2, 2006, 03:29 PM
Hey - there's no law that says you have to kill something. Seriously - most of us LOVE all the things you think you'll love about hunting (campfires, nature, giant greasy breakfasts, etc). For me, they're the highlight.
I hunt, and, when things go right, I kill.
But you can certainly GO hunting. IF and ONLY IF the stars line up and you have shot on a deer, then you will have to make the decision. In fact, if you're hunting alone (that is, without someone else right beside you), you could probably get away with this for years before anyone ever noticed. :D
It's all one process to me - plan, hunt, wait, kill, clean, cut-up, eat... but you are certainly free to go out in the woods with a gun and make your decision then.
An aside - it can change from time to time. I have a wonderful uncle back home who dropped by my folks' house one night during deer season while I was there. It's not a big deer we're talking about, but my family hunts for meat - antlers are a bonus.
"Hey, Uncle D! See anything today?"
"Yep. Saw a gorgeous six point while I was back in the hardwoods by Ferris' swamp."
"Did you get a shot at him?"
"Nah."
"Huh. Was he running or was he too far away?"
"He strolled right in front of me."
Abby blinks. "Just didn't want to shoot him?"
"Nope. Thought I'd let him walk. Good lookin' deer."
Same uncle shot a spike two days later. Moral of the story - I don't know for sure, but sometimes even people who hunt a lot don't feel like doing the killing part.
bearmgc
November 2, 2006, 03:30 PM
There's neighbors, friends, co-workers wanting venison, but no time to hunt or ability to hunt. I have retired friends, who can't hunt, but love wild game. They always get a Christmas present.
cslinger
November 2, 2006, 03:31 PM
Me personally, I don't think the killing part of ANYTHING, should ever be fun and I think we as a society would do well to remember that.
Sometimes killing needs to be done for food, survival or defense but taking pleasure in the actually killing just seems wrong to me. I don't take pleasure in the fact that some poor cow took it in the forehead for my burger and I actually think hunting might be a good experience for us all simply to understand what is involved in our survival, circle of life. This is one reason why I want to do this someday. Not sure I could plug bambi though.....maybe duck first. I could kill a duck....a duck is just a fish with wings. :D
Chris
springmom
November 2, 2006, 03:45 PM
Do you suppose it had to do with it coming to you in a trash bag? I know, it's probably what he had that would hold the thing, but....
If you have never hunted before and you have never lived on a farm, then all your life, meat has come to you either packaged up in sanitary little styrofoam trays (that even have a little absorbent towel in them to soak up nasty excess blood) or cooked on a plate (or in a McDonald's wrapper):neener: Your reaction to killing a deer is probably about the same as you'd have if you suddenly had to wring the neck of the chicken you were going to eat for dinner. :barf: :barf: :barf:
So it could be the presentation of meat in a very unusual way that caused you to react as you did; it could be the idea of eating a wild animal that is weird; could be you are resistant to trying new foods at all (are you a picky eater?); or it could be other issues all coming into play when he handed you a shoulder in a trash bag :rolleyes:
Nobody really knows how they'll react to killing an animal until they do it. For me, it was no big deal. I enjoy hunting and I VERY much enjoy wild game. Personally, I'd recommend cooking that shoulder and giving it a try. Venison shoulder, marinated in wine and herbs, and slow cooked, would be YUMMY. Just remember that because it's wild game, you will want to cook it differently than you would a roast beef.
One fun book, which has good recipes, is Ted Nugent's Kill It and Grill It which one of our grown children got my husband for Christmas last year. Good ideas on how to cook wild game, and of course, Nugent's own wackiness thrown in too.
Last point: not everybody in the whole wide world has to like hunting. If you want to go out with your buds and enjoy their company and sit in a treestand with a camera and hunt that way, that is a perfectly acceptable thing to do. And if a picture of a beautiful herd of does grazing in the morning mist is something you'd rather have on your wall than a buck's head, that is OK. Do what makes you happy. Life is too short to stick yourself into somebody else's expectations.
Springmom
knuckles
November 2, 2006, 03:57 PM
Thank you all very much! I was dreading having to tell my friend that I didn't want to go after all, as I know he is looking forward to our trip too. I now won't feel bad about not eating what I kill (should I not like it, but will try), since you all have provided suitable options. I'll go this one time and, assuming I bag something, see how I feel about it and use that as a basis to determine if I'll be back. I think that is a best-of-both-worlds approach!
Thanks everyone for your responses, you have all been very helpful and I'll be sure to update this thread in December after we get back...! :D
Poper
November 2, 2006, 04:32 PM
Knuckles,
I have brought as many (probably more) tags home in my pocket than I have on a carcass. The kill is a small part of the experience of the overall hunt. Go and enjoy. If you kill something, fine. If you don't, so what? You'll have a good time either way.
Oh, and take a small camera along, too. Chances are, your trip will be one for your Memory Book.
Best of luck!
Poper
Sistema1927
November 2, 2006, 04:56 PM
Do you suppose it had to do with it coming to you in a trash bag? I know, it's probably what he had that would hold the thing, but....
That was also my first thought. Even though a new hefty sack right out of the box is clean, we normally don't think of them as something in which to store food. Also, a whole shoulder is a bit much to comprehend when you are used to dealing with smaller portions of meat at the grocery store.
I would recommend that you:
a) go hunting,
b) field dress your kill with the help of your buddies, and
c) let a professional processor reduce your kill into tasty steaks and other cuts
Load up the freezer with portion sized cuts of venison all wrapped up in white butcher paper, and you will probably have a different take on the experience.
trickyasafox
November 2, 2006, 05:24 PM
for those who like hunting but don't like the meat, you can donate meat to needy families.
i think their is an organization called hunters for homeless or something. . .i could be off on the title. either way i'd start by contacting your local elks club or something.
JW in Ohio
November 2, 2006, 05:32 PM
I agree with Abby's Uncle D. I was out yesterday morning and tried out a new deer grunt call. An 8 pointer showed up and I called him back twice to within my 20 yard marker for my crossbow. He was majestic all puffed up, searching and sniffing to find the other deer. I let him walk and it was my best day ever of hunting. Its hunting, not shooting.
Go and just enjoy being out! Shoot if it seems right to you at the time.
mp510
November 2, 2006, 06:26 PM
In Connecticut, there is a program called Hunter's for the Hungry. I believe there are similar programs in other states as well. The meat is used for helping the less fortunate. You could also give the meat to friends.
swampdog
November 2, 2006, 06:38 PM
I agree with springmom and the others about the way it was presented to you. If it's cooked correctly, and you like meat, you'll love venision. You do need to cook it right, though.
The jerky suggestion was a good one. I've taken the inner lions and backstraps out of more than one deer and made jerky out of the rest. YUM
You can buy a hand grinder cheap. I usually bone out shoulders and grind them up. Anything you use hamburger in can be made with deer burger.
If I don't plan to eat it, I won't kill it. I felt the same when I fished obsessively. It's not my job to feed the neighbors. I don't mind giving away a few fish or chunks of deer, but most of what I kill is for my family's use. I've thrown back plenty of fish and I've let plenty of deer walk.
Abby,
I think your uncle's a smart guy. A spike is much better eating than a 6 pointer. :D
KaceCoyote
November 2, 2006, 06:39 PM
Ever heard that the travel is more important than the destination?
The hunt is more important about the shot.
If you havent grown up around hunting, you probably should feel a little off. Your about to undertake a unique and alien act, feeling wierd is part of feeling human.
Do it, take a breath. The animal you shoot is giving you a gift, a very wonderful gift and its your responsibility to take that gift and use/enjoy it well.
islandphish
November 2, 2006, 06:49 PM
I think everyone has covered the gentle aspects of nature and hunting.
The bottom line remains, if you are willing to eat meat you should be willing to go hunting. I realize that sometimes we have hang-ups but I assure you that you will find it personally fulfilling when you realize that you have done what millions of men have done. You have provided for yourself and become closer to the animal that feeds you and your family or friends.
I've donated many a deer and I love the hunt. The kill is very important to me, as is the hunt. Get out there and have fun.
Mannlicher
November 2, 2006, 07:03 PM
sleep in, and leave the hunting to those who know their minds on the subject. This probably is not a sport for you.
springmom
November 2, 2006, 07:21 PM
I would recommend that you:
a) go hunting,
b) field dress your kill with the help of your buddies, and
c) let a professional processor reduce your kill into tasty steaks and other cuts
Load up the freezer with portion sized cuts of venison all wrapped up in white butcher paper, and you will probably have a different take on the experience.
EXACTLY!!!!
I'll shoot 'em, and I'll field dress 'em, but if I try to do the butchering, well, I'll butcher it, all right, and I don't mean in the good sense :what: :neener:
I disagree with the statement that if you're going to eat meat you need to be willing to hunt. In human communities from time out of mind, some people were hunters and some were not. Those who weren't didn't have to starve; they got to partake of the kill and they contributed to the community in other ways. Cut the OP some slack and let him get into this at his own speed...or decide that it isn't for him, at his own speed. He'll figure it out on his own, but not if he doesn't go at all.
Springmom
adobewalls
November 2, 2006, 08:37 PM
My son killed his first deer a few of years ago at 12 yrs. old, but he had been hunting with me since he was 8. I let him pick when he wanted to actually shoot a deer. In those years sometimes I took the shot he didn't take and sometimes we just watched the deer graze by and enjoyed nature.
borrowedtime69
November 2, 2006, 08:50 PM
I recommend you start small, rabbit, squirrel and such. hunt for them, skin & clean them, and prepare them according to a proven reciepe.
if thats not a problem, then try deer hunting. if that doesnt work for you and you really liked the small game, just hunt the small stuff. theres less emotional involvement for some in hunting the smaller game than a big majesticdeer or elk.
it really makes me feel very good about myself when i go out into the forest, plains or mountains , especially with a handgun for getting close up, and kill my own game and eat it. gives me a feeling of liberty, independance, and self reliance. i like to know that i can, if ever needed, walk into the wilderness, make a kill and feed myself and my family in case the Fertilizer hits the fan.
i do deer hunt now and then, but its really a side for me, most all my regular hunting is small game and varmint hunting with my .22's, and thats usually enough to give me that good feeling.
think about it. good luck, let us know what happens. -Eric
knuckles
November 2, 2006, 09:10 PM
sleep in, and leave the hunting to those who know their minds on the subject. This probably is not a sport for you.
Gratuitous post count bump...
Blackfork
November 2, 2006, 09:51 PM
I hunt behind my lakehouse all year- with two deercams. I know every one of the local deer, even who is related to who. Today I was face-to-face with a little buck that last year fell asleep in front of both deercams and spent the whole season sparring with a little six point who has since disappeared. He's a very nice eight point this year. Nice square rack. Tall tines. Wish I could see his buddy. I ran into him while pulling cam cards. I just held still and let him pass. He crossed downwind and gave me a little snort and a jump. I have one of his little squirrel chewed shed antlers in a bowl on the living room coffee table.
Two big bucks in the area, one who had his left antler torn off at the socket in mid December. His brother was shot from the road last year during the rut on about November 9, 2005 by a person in a truck. His left socket was damaged and grew a very atypical antler this year. His undamaged side is a six point that would score out 140+ if he had both. I hope he breeds every doe in the creekbottom. I'm not going to shoot him, or the kid, or the other big buck who probably will be a monster if he makes it to next year. We have had two of the driest summers of my lifetime so the horns aren't as good as they could have been.
There are also twins who lost their mom and a sibling before they were out of spots or weaned. (I think we had a big cat come through with kits.) They are very poor and it will take years for them to catch up, if they ever do. They show up in the yard all the time. I worry about them. It's hard without your mom and that milk.
I'll try rattling up the big bucks next week just to see them.
Probably kill six or seven does at a friends ranch. He has 30 doe tags to shoot. I shot one with a Garand last weekend. I skin and quarter them and give them away. I have people lined up. I'll hunt with several different military arms just for the heck of it. Today I zeroed my Ruger #1/scoped, a 1903A3, a K98, and an Argentine 1909 carbine. Ready to go.
Men have hunted deer behind my lakehouse and up at the ranch at Clarksville for 18,000 years. The lakehouse has several Pre-colombian sites along the bluff near it. They have pottery and arrow points in them. I'm just following an old family tradition.
It's gory. You kill something about your own size which make me reflect on my OWN mortality. It's direct. Kill it and eat it. No more restaurant food produced by strangers far away. Field dress a deer and you cut apart things that you wouldn't want cut apart on yourself. You get blood on your hands. You pour another beings guts and blood on the ground. Serious stuff. I think it makes you a better, more moral, more reflective human. And then there is the pure hunting skills. Sit. Watch. Listen. Imagine. Be still but alert, like meditation. Read sign. Know the landscape. Know your weapon and how to use it morally. You ought to know your ecosystem and the folks you inhabit it with. You have to accept failure and success. You have to be able to kill. It's a complex skill set, but unlike most modern skill sets, like being able to figure your income tax or get your car repaired or program your cell phone, its a very clean and direct skill set. I think it resonates in human DNA in ways most modern tasks DON'T.
Plus there you are with a rifle. Only free men are armed and this is a world that increasingly devalues free men, but there you are. If you have to fight, ever, you will have picked a spot to make a stand, waited, watched, shot and killed before.
If you are going to be a complete human being, I think it helps to hunt.
knuckles
November 2, 2006, 10:32 PM
It's gory. You kill something about your own size which make me reflect on my OWN mortality. It's direct. Kill it and eat it. No more restaurant food produced by strangers far away. Field dress a deer and you cut apart things that you wouldn't want cut apart on yourself. You get blood on your hands. You pour another beings guts and blood on the ground. Serious stuff. I think it makes you a better, more moral, more reflective human. And then there is the pure hunting skills. Sit. Watch. Listen. Imagine. Be still but alert, like meditation. Read sign. Know the landscape. Know your weapon and how to use it morally. You ought to know your ecosystem and the folks you inhabit it with. You have to accept failure and success. You have to be able to kill. It's a complex skill set, but unlike most modern skill sets, like being able to figure your income tax or get your car repaired or program your cell phone, its a very clean and direct skill set. I think it resonates in human DNA in ways most modern tasks DON'T.
Plus there you are with a rifle. Only free men are armed and this is a world that increasingly devalues free men, but there you are. If you have to fight, ever, you will have picked a spot to make a stand, waited, watched, shot and killed before.
If you are going to be a complete human being, I think it helps to hunt.
Wow, that was very well put.
Rembrandt
November 2, 2006, 11:58 PM
What I'm about to post may or may not be for you....before man was anything else, he was a hunter. A carnivore with the ability to outwit his prey for survival.
No one here was born a hunter....it's a an acquired skill passed from generation to generation. No one here was born with the ability to field dress an animal, cut up meat, and experience the outdoors. All those skills were learned by everyone here. Sadly in our present day society man has found alternative methods to supply his food needs, many will never experience their ancestors skills.
You can either experience the skills your ancestors found necessary for survival or read about it. I believe people have a better perspective on life, the outdoors, and learn more about themselves by experienceing the hunt....
My oldest son was stationed in Afghanistan for nearly 15 months....he encountered several intense combat situations that could have ended in tragedgy. After returning home he thanked me for all the lessons learned through hunting. He told me that he had an edge over many of his fellow soldiers by useing his hunting skills....and that those experiences had saved his life on more than one occassion. Up to that point I had always considered hunting as recreation.....it's only now that I realize it was so much more.
Kingcreek
November 3, 2006, 09:27 AM
He told me that he had an edge over many of his fellow soldiers by useing his hunting skills....and that those experiences had saved his life on more than one occassion. Up to that point I had always considered hunting as recreation.....it's only now that I realize it was so much more.
Rembrandt, Wow. Thank you for that.
original poster, too bad your buddy didn't cook up some nice cuts for you so you could get an idea what venison is supposed to taste like, before he dropped a whole shoulder on your table. I'm sure he thought he was being generous, but that could be a little overwhelming if you're not used to it.
and for future reference:
Trash bags are for TRASH, NOT MEAT.
They are not clean, sanitary, or suitable for meat or any other food you intend to eat. They contain lots of nasty residues of stuff like pthalenes, releasing agents, perfumes, insecticides, etc.
skipjack
November 3, 2006, 10:21 AM
Here is a link to an organization that my archery club supports; albeit in a small way, financially.
http://www.fhfh.org/cgi-bin/index.asp
I agree with those who said that presentation is important in making something palatable. A wrapped, and properly packaged piece of venison is much more likely to get eaten by someone new to eating game meat. Venison, properly prepared, is excellent food!
Good luck, and enjoy the comraderie of the hunt. :)
MEDDAC19
November 3, 2006, 06:33 PM
knuckles
Every hunting camp needs and loves a good cook. Go. Enjoy. If you don't feel like killing a deer this year, you will surely be welcome as the cook. I was raised be urbanites and did the progressive route. First small game, then deer processed by someone else, and now I butcher my own. Just do what you are comfortable with, your buddies should understand.
CRAZY-G
November 3, 2006, 08:55 PM
Call local processors that handle wildgame they should know who to give the meat to,homeless shelters food banks ect. most processors will processes for free or very little for the needy,also most game departments donate confiscated
game so give them a call
MDHunter
November 3, 2006, 10:50 PM
Good advice from many already here, I'll try not to repeat.
Here's a point I haven't seen yet, or may have overlooked, in other posts: like it or not, admit it or not, we are merely one part of the food chain; hunting gives us a more direct link to our place in the food chain, than anything else I know. It can also give us a link to our ancestors, and the way of life that was common for them.
Here's another thing to remember, if you are a meat eater: in almost every case, an animal killed in the wild dies more humanely than cattle killed at a slaughterhouse. Once the first few cattle are killed, the other cattle can smell the blood and see the fear in the other cattle, and that only escalates. In the wild, an animal usually dies fairly quickly, and without the smell of blood and fear that cattle experience.
Good luck, whatever you decide.
Michael
22-rimfire
November 4, 2006, 12:36 AM
I hunt and I take my deer to a butcher to do a nice neat job. I literally drop the deer off on my way home from the field. My wife never even sees the deer. I don't have to worry about whether or not its cold enough to let it hang in the garage etc. I take pictures . Hope I'm lucky enough to get one this year. I only want one no matter how many I might be technically be allowed.
I get most of the deer ground up into hamburger (with pork fat added by the butcher). This is one of the advantages of using a regular butcher as they have fat that they can blend with the venison.
After I get the meat back, sometimes I donate part of the meat frozen to a shelter. Figure I shot the deer, it is my responsibility. I give away about 2/3 of the meat eventually.
crawfish
November 4, 2006, 03:41 PM
"The camping out, hanging out with my close buddies, sitting around the campfire at night, the hours of solitude in nature, reflecting or just thinking about nothing and anything else I have missed"
YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT CAMPING. LEAVE THE GUN HOME AND BE THE COOK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DWARREN123
November 4, 2006, 07:12 PM
I think you have to make the decision on your own. If killing a animal is not for you then take a camera to camp and capture your memories that way. Not everyone is a hunter.
Go with what you feel, later you may change in what you think.
SoCalShooter
November 4, 2006, 07:20 PM
I consume what I kill, got my first deer this week. Personally did not have a mental block myself. If you have reservations about it I suggest you still do it, if you dont like it or its not for you, you will definetly know after the first time.
springmom
November 4, 2006, 07:54 PM
I don't want to steal my husband's thunder on his hunt today, but I'll share a little bit, for an after-the-fact point of view.
We went out at 5:30 this morning, in the dead dark. Sunrise was 6:30. By about 8:45, I heard the CRACK of a rifle from where I knew DH was. Buzzed him on our walkie-talkies.
"Was that you?"
"Yes. Don't scare the deer away". (I had hit the call button, which makes a ring-ring sound. Oops. :o )
He buzzed me twenty or thirty minutes later. "Come help me track it."
That is our deal. When one of us gets a shot, the other drops their hunt and comes to help track. I looked RIGHT PAST the deer, which had slid down a ravine, but we eventually (took about an hour) found it, he dragged it up the slope of the ravine, and we gutted it.
His bullet took out both lungs. That deer had just enough energy that the oxygen he had in his blood provided him at the time he was shot, and then he was done. He didn't suffer. He will feed us, and we will share the venison with our priest and his family.
DH is very proud of his kill, and he should be. It takes more skill than you can know, until you've done this, to hunt a wild animal (remember, you're in HIS neighborhood and he usually knows you are there). It takes skill and patience to track and find the animal. It takes skill and knowledge to gut the animal without damaging the meat (you do NOT want to rupture the guts!) It takes physical strength and stamina to hunt, to carry or drag a deer out maybe quite some distance.
IMO, it is an extraordinary experience. Yes, there's blood. Yes, you have to dig in and get those insides out without opening up the wrong thing. It is an extremely rewarding thing to do. and as DH says, there is something primal about going out into the wild, with a firearm, and "putting meat on the table" for your family.
If you really decide you don't like venison, I bet your friends and family will take it; or you can certainly give it away to the poor. There are also organizations that will process the meat and send it to our soldiers in Iraq! If you don't want the venison, check out one of those options.
My advice, FWIW, is to give it a try.
Springmom
X-Rap
November 5, 2006, 03:17 PM
Please give the hunt a try but do it on your own terms. I don't know your age or background but get the feel that some of the things surrounding the hunting experiance are unfamiliar to you. I hope your hunting buddys will be respectfull of this unfamiliarity and help you through what can be called a life changing event.If you have grown to maturity and not experianced this it is probubly going to be even more profound but also rewarding.Every hunter with a soul looks at his kill with some remorse but also can see that the circle must continue and by joining in the process I feel we have a better understanding and satisfaction than those who feed only at the meat counter or obstain from flesh entirely.This year I have gutted 3 bulls and 2 bucks [I]1mine poorly hit[I]and in the 30 years that I have been field dressing game have become desensitized to that process but some may never.My children still don't do it.We process our own and always have and after a day of butchering I rarely want to sit down to a nice rare roast but after a day or two I'm back to being a carnivore again. As far as eating every thing I shoot I'll have to pass on that. I can't see me eating coyote or flea infested prairie dogs or rock squirrels.Best luck if you go and if you choose to donate the meat as has been suggested here learn the protocall and the contacts prior to the hunt so that the process goes smoothly and lawfully.
IllHunter
November 6, 2006, 03:12 PM
Thats what makes this forum so great! Scads of great advice, philosophy and reality blended with experience and insight. I don't presume to share other wisdom than has already been written, but I will offer something else. Next year, come hunt (or help) with me. We can plan a public land hunt in Illinois or Michigan and you can experience the traditional midwest deer hunt. I could use the help as I have learned that most of the work takes place after the trigger is pulled. I try to hunt where no one else is and that requires walking in deep where vehicles aren't allowed. This then requires that the recepient of my attentions be dragged, carried or cajoled out said distance. (As someone said "The best place to shoot a deer is next to your truck") You could observe and/or participate as you wish. If you invest in a tag (license) you can take first or not, your call. If you feel squeemish at cleaning the kill you can sit it out. After the gutting the deer can be wrapped in a game bag and little or no gore is visible. I butcher my kills and if you would like to experience that we could oblige. I have taught my son and my nephew to hunt and both were reticent to some extent. My son never got past killing and eating squirrels, my nephew waited until 36 to express any interest, he had great beginners luck and scored a fork horn at 9am opening morning. He has stated that it was one of the great insightful emotional experiences of his life. i know it is that way for me, That's why I keep on....
Luis Leon
November 6, 2006, 11:14 PM
This an excellent topic, my first deer hunting experience wasn't a good one. It was the first time my buddy and I had gone deer hunting and he got one. We were inexperienced at field-dressing and made a mess of it. The blood and smell made me feel sick.
Fast-forward 20 years and I'm going to give it a second try. If I'm blessed and bag a deer, I hope to do better come the field dressing part, which I want to do myself. I'm fortunate enough to be going with an experienced hunter and am counting on him to provide guidance once the processing starts. The prospect of venison in the freezer has me very excited.
regards,
Luis Leon
Double Naught Spy
November 7, 2006, 12:39 AM
What I'm about to post may or may not be for you....before man was anything else, he was a hunter. A carnivore with the ability to outwit his prey for survival.
Um, no. Based on comparison with other primates including the great apes, plus comparison with the human paleontological record, before being anything else, man was predominately a gatherer of plant foods, supplemented by some scavenging and rare hunting. Low, bunodont teeth are indicative of an omnivorous diet.
Before mankind became hunters, mankind was the hunted.
c_yeager
November 7, 2006, 01:20 AM
I like hunting, but I am not keen on the killing angle, I bring a camera and get to go out any time of year.
kungfuhippie
November 7, 2006, 01:42 AM
I like to hunt, my favorite is jack rabbit. Yeah people are all looking at my post wierd. The thing is I haven't been deer hunting yet. Deer season is during fall quarter in college and I would want to devote more time to it. I do enjoy being outdoors, and hunting is a way to get out to nature. Just remember what others have said, only take a shot when you're ready. Letting an animal go because you won't shoot it or the shot is bad is nobler than shooting before you're ready.
I would have never gone hunting, being raised by city people, the whole meat comes in a plastic sealed thingy is how I grew up.
When I was living in Ecuador I found the plastic wrapped chickens didn't taste as good as the homegrown type. And they cost twice as much. The ones from the market (whole, dead) were cheap, I was okay with cleaning/gutting them and after seeing others kill chickens I found that buying the live ones was even cheaper and killing them was something I could stomach. Killing the first one was difficult, a little more involved than pulling a trigger. I didn't enjoy it, but I was poor and that saved me two dollars over the plastic bag chickens. I also developed a taste for rabbit, and that's hard to find in the store , especially cheap, so I started to hunt them.
LAK
November 7, 2006, 06:45 AM
The thrill of the hunt is in the chase - not the kill.
If you don't want to hunt, don't hunt. If you want to hunt but not kill, use a camera (like Col. C. H. Stockley sometimes did). If you want to hunt, kill but not eat - just hunt, kill, and give the meat to someone else.
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November 7, 2006, 01:21 PM
Here is a link to an infromation site run by the NRA that list all of the "Hunters For The Hungry (http://www.nrahq.org/hunting/hungry_nat_list.asp)" type organazaions throughout the country. I whole heartedly recommend that everyone that has surplus game meat donate through these organazations. Besides providing food for those less fortunate than us, these activities also serve to show hunters in a favorible light to the general public, and this is something we need desperately.
Most folks that are not hunters don't understand that hunting is a vital wildlife management tool. They simply think that hunters are bloodthirsty killers out exerting their machismo and shooting up the woods. Unfortunately the criminals that call themselves hunters give us all a bad name. When was the last time you read a newspaper article about how a species of game was saved by hunters' efforts and money? I can't recall one time. Now when was the last time you saw something on someone being arested for poaching or some such?
So, every time a soccer mom is volunteering her time in a soup kitchen or some such and they find out that the protien rich low fat meat they are serving was donated by hunters, it serves to show the good side. Hopefully that word and understanding will spread and help us to overcome years of bad press. OK. I'll get off my soapbox now. See y'all in the woods sometime!
MCgunner
November 7, 2006, 03:32 PM
There's some organization like "hunters for the hungry" or something. Ted Nugent hawks them sometimes on his show. I would NEVER EVER give hard earned venison away that I need and my family would kick me out if I did. ROFL Been eatin' game my whole life.
Now, there's nothing nastier to kill and clean than a danged chicken...:barf: Yet, folks eat those nasty critters and call 'em good. I eat 'em, too, but buy the stuff at the store. I haven't kept chickens in a while, now, and when I did it was laying hens for the eggs. I'd kill one now and then, but I hated the chore of cleaning it. I'll take a mess of ducks or a a couple of deer any day over a chicken for cleaning.
But, meat's meat and venison is lean and healthy. Mmmm, backstrap! We chicken fry 'em with gravy. Daughter loves venison chilli too. I'm sure if you kill one, you won't have a problem givin' it away. I'd take the whole animal off your hands and do all the cleaning and butchering. :D
waffentomas
November 7, 2006, 10:56 PM
I think MDhunter nailed it...animals are dying anyway, just to feed you. Cows take a .22 to the head after being herded around for days in a high stress environnment. Save a cow, kill an elk.
There is a purity to killing your own meat. I feel like as a meat eater, I'm morally bound to do it. And this is coming from someone who was a vegetarian for 10 years, and opposed to eating meat, mainly for health reasons. But killing an elk or deer, or whatever, is a way of harvesting organically grown, high quality, low fat meat.
There is also an extreme sense of satisfaction that I am providing for my family.
I felt sorry for the elk I killed this year, but hugged them (after I was SURE they had expired) and thanked them for their sacrifice, and for providing meat for my wife and kids. Honor your kills, respect their beauty and grace in the wild, and the extreme challenge they provide.
Tom
redbone
November 16, 2006, 06:32 PM
adobewalls:
After my wife suggested tuna noodle cassarole, I was trying to think of something different for dinner tonight, and remembered your medallion recipe, looked it up, and prepared it with one of my last packages of frozen backstrap from last year. Wow! Thanks for the tip, it is delicious. I've always just grilled the backstrap, and this is opening up all sorts of possibilities.
The season starts here in Indiana in two days. Time to restock the freezer.
RBH
Bill2k1
November 16, 2006, 06:47 PM
Putting food in a garbage bag is a huge no no.
spooney
November 17, 2006, 12:17 AM
My stepdad has killed almost every big game animal on the North American continent, he goes hunting every year. About 5 years ago he just stopped killing anything. Doesn't mean he doesn't come to deer camp and enjoy his time there, he cooks breakfast for everyone, helps everybody butcher their kills, just all around enjoys himself...he just doesn't really feel like killing anything anymore.
knuckles
November 17, 2006, 11:56 AM
For those who posted useful information, thank you, I really appreciate all the insight. And for those who posted something useless, thank you as well for adding your thoughts. That is, after all, what this site is about. And a special round of thanks to DNS for posting something educational. ;)
I will hunt, because I have always been the type of person to try something at least once. I'll resolve my personal moral dilemma after my first kill. I think that's the only fair way to decide how I feel. So the hunt is on, probably in December. I'll be back to update the thread with my experience.
Once again to everyone, thank you!
cpaspr
November 17, 2006, 10:04 PM
until you try, how you will feel.
I grew up with a dad who hunted, which didn't bother me, and then an older brother who hunted when he was old enough.
But I didn't know if I could actually kill something until the opportunity was first presented. Then, and only then, did I know if I was a hunter, or a gatherer.
Be sure to let us know. And good luck.
bub8889
November 18, 2006, 09:17 AM
I hope you enjoy it whether you pull the trigger or not.
I'm a pretty diehard hunter. I spend every possible hour in the field I can and have been doing so for 17yrs. It's not about the kill, it's like you said the buddies the beers and B/S in the evenings and the piece with nature. There are many days where I have the oppertunity to take a shot and I don't, I have a great view of some picture valley or secluded stream and think why ruin a perfect day by pulling the trigger or if I pull the trigger what excuse am I going to use tomorrow to do this all over again.
So my .02$ would be that if your having a good time on your hunt and you have to make the decision of pulling the trigger or not, if you have the slightest feeling that it will ruin the experience don't do it hunting isn't just about the kill. If you like everything but the killing in the future you can carry a camera or video tape for your buddies, or like a few ppl I know " take your gun for a walk".
sixgunner455
November 19, 2006, 03:23 PM
Some Spanish nobleman named Jose-something-or-other wrote a book on hunting, and he said, "Man does not hunt in order to kill; he kills in order to have hunted."
I enjoy the hunt, but without the kill, it's not complete. I don't get a lot of animals or birds when I hunt, so I'm not saying that "I always get something" or that to hunt and not get something is bad. But sometimes, you do have to drop the hammer to make it complete. I am at peace about it. I got a few doves on the early hunt this year. Never limited out. That isn't my goal. I eat what I get, I'm getting better at hunting different things than I grew up chasing, and I'm enjoying myself in the experience of going through life.
Hunting is just a part of it.
Good luck with your deer hunt.
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