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Most people do not handle firearms safely!

Discussion in 'General Gun Discussions' started by johntaylorny, Jul 4, 2010.

  1. johntaylorny

    johntaylorny member

    Apr 11, 2010
    When showing my pistol to anyone I always make sure it's unloaded but the same thing happens. Non-gun owners, gun owners, and ccw holders all do the same thing.

    1. First thing they do, or let's say do not do, is verify the gun is unloaded.
    2. They pick the gun up with their finger wrapped around the trigger.
    3. They look down the barrel or wave the gun around at people with finger on trigger.

    This is about 90% of the time what people do.

    Then when you tell them to stop waiving the gun around and get their finger off the trigger, instead of complying they verbally argue with you "but it's not loaded!".

    I see the same thing at the gun range all the time too. Why the heck would someone argue with you "but it's not loaded" while pointing a gun at you instead of just taking their finger off the trigger?!?!

    Last edited: Jul 4, 2010
  2. Justin

    Justin Moderator Staff Member

    Dec 29, 2002
    It's very unfortunate that you seem to have surrounded yourself with mouth breathers.

    I have not had the same experiences you relate. Even when I've had a friend/relative pick up a firearm in an unsafe manner, a moment of simple safety instruction has always solved the problem.

    Perhaps you should get rid of your gun or find new friends.
  3. Nushif

    Nushif Senior Member

    Mar 21, 2010
    Corvallis, OR
    I think the reason CCW permit holders are a bit more lax is because they carry a loaded firearm on their hip quite regularly.
    I know for instance, I don't usually have the best flagging discipline (also, blame the Army, ironically) but have some of the better triggerfinger control.

    The point is that the rules are an interlocking safety mechanism that prevents the worst from happening if applied, but frankly expecting every person to always handle every firearm in the way a longrifle shooter at a range who has just completed hunter's safety is not only counter to human nature, but also not practical for every shooter.

    The triggerfinger thing bothers me, too. But someone flagging me after they've cleared a weapon and their finger is off the trigger ... I'm not entirely too worried about that.

    I guess what I'm saying is that there's no excuse for lax gun handling, especially the final backstop being the finger on the trigger, but the rules aren't clad in iron. If that was the case, a cop wouldn't point a pistol at a suspect, a soldier wouldn't cover a buddy for fear of there being someone behind a doorway, etc.
    And oddly enough, a concealed carry holder would never have a loaded weapon on them.
  4. Losov

    Losov New Member

    Feb 23, 2010
    I'm more afraid of unsafe drivers - it appears that there are many more of them than there are unsafe gun handlers.
  5. TheProf

    TheProf Active Member

    Jul 1, 2009
    This is my gun safety philosophy..

    The four rules are there for a reason.
    But I add a 5th...
    "When at home...(assuming not a self-defense situation)...I keep all firearms holstered when others are at home." The holster acts as a secondary "safety". That means...no gun cleaning, no "dry fire" practice, etc. when others are home. I usually wait until I'm alone to do gun cleaning, dry fry practice, etc.

    I always clear my weapon before handing it to anyone. That practice in a way...is a reminder for them to do the same. I also do the same when receiving a weapon from anyone.
  6. Dokkalfar

    Dokkalfar Member

    Jan 7, 2009
    Well I don;t hang around to many people who have firearms (at least, not with firearms present) But of the couple friends I do hang out with and go to the range with, clearing is a pretty standard practice. I have a friend who just bought a second pistol (had a LCP) and just bought Ruger's SR9c (or something like that) so when I first got to see it, its drop magazine, check chamber. Usually if we pass any firearms around, we tend to check the chamber every time the firearm changes hands..
  7. kingpin008

    kingpin008 Mentor

    Jun 6, 2006
    Howard County, Merry Land
    I'm with Justin - I simply don't have the OP's problem.

    If someone is handling one of my guns, it's because one or more of the following criteria have been met:

    1. I know them and trust their ability to safely handle firearms.
    2. I have instructed them in gun safety and proper firearms handling methods, and have had them verbally confirm that they understand.

    In either of these cases, the gun is ALWAYS unloaded before being handed over, and the action is ALWAYS open. This way, all the person I'm handing it to has to do is look in the action and poke a finger into the chamber to verify.

    And if they do something foolish like sweep me or themselves with the muzzle or place their finger inside the trigger guard, then I gently remind them not to do that. If they continue, the gun is promptly taken from them. Simple.
  8. Spencer_OKC

    Spencer_OKC New Member

    Feb 19, 2010
    Central Oklahoma
    What part of the country do you live in?

    Most of the people I've seen handle guns who are not experienced usually question about the gun being unloaded, and I show them how to check that the firearm is unloaded. They generally do not put their finger on the trigger. While some will inadvertently cover someone while examining the firearm, they do not intentionally point the firearm at anyone.

    I live in Oklahoma. I question your locale because I wonder if the lack of exposure in areas of the country that are not as firearm friendly result in clueless handling of guns.
  9. Tallinar

    Tallinar Active Member

    Jun 4, 2010
    Des Moines, IA

    Leading by example like this is the best way to get other people to be safe.
  10. 22-rimfire

    22-rimfire Elder

    Jun 11, 2005
    I was at Bass Pro a while back and was looking at a revolver... they handed it to me after verifying it was unloaded and I did the same. Then a younger lady accuses me of pointing the gun at her and went into a rant.... I didn't point the gun at her, but I left it go. I figured she was having a bad day.
  11. Patriotme

    Patriotme Active Member

    Nov 13, 2009
    I agree that most non shooters or new shooters are unsafe. They just don't know what the rules are or they are so excited (nervous) that they forget. Most people have little or no firearms training. They seem to try but if they don't have an experienced person watching them they quickly develop bad habbits.
  12. pacerdude

    pacerdude Member

    Apr 13, 2010
    Columbia, SC
    A big +1 to the Prof, I add that same fifth rule to my gun safety regiment at home. I know the holster is not a fool-proof safety system, but keeping my gun in the holster makes me feel better. :)
  13. dbb1776

    dbb1776 Member

    Jan 19, 2010
    Always clear the weapon PERIOD. NEVER point it at something you don't want a hole in.
    ALWAYS practice trigger discipline.
    Anything else is reckless gun handling.
    Self defense and military operations are in a different category. I agree with OP 100 percent.
  14. Gouranga

    Gouranga Active Member

    Jan 30, 2010
    Gaston County, NC
    Any non-shooters I hang with, will violate the firearm safety rules. This is why when I KNOW I am handing a gun to a non-shooter, I will take the time to educate them. With the shooters I know, I have never had one of them act so carelessly.
  15. Werewolf

    Werewolf Senior Member

    Sep 12, 2003

    Hell has officially frozen over, the sky is falling and the apocalypse has been scheduled.

    I agree with Justin!


    The OP is hanging with the wrong crowd but I too have not had his experience. I have noted that behavior in a few but they were always new shooters at a range, most having never handled a gun before and no one had ever explained gun safety to them. Invariably it took less than a couple of minutes to correct the behavior and the shooters were always grateful for the lesson.
  16. Mudinyeri

    Mudinyeri Active Member

    May 8, 2010
    I can probably count the individuals on both hands the individuals, other than me, that have "handled" one of my guns. Typically, this would be done during a shooting session with members of my family (one of whom, I will admit, does not know how to handle guns safely) or an instructional session with one of the members of my family.

    I would never let someone I know only casually handle one of my guns.
  17. tominct

    tominct New Member

    Nov 8, 2009
    Many years ago there was a gun shop down the street from where I worked. I'd occasionally stop in just to look around and talk with the guys there.
    One Friday night, one of the regulars was there with his son, maybe 8 or 9 years old. Sara (the owner) was involved in a conversation with some of the other guys when the Dad asked to see a revolver that was in the display case. Sara picked it up and handed it to him, and continued with her discussion.

    Small boy: Dad, Miss Sara didn't check to see that the pistol wasn't loaded!!

    Dad (embarrassed): Don't worry, Miss Sara knows that all her guns are safe.

    Sara: Please don't apologize for me, your son's right, I should have checked it...
    (to kid): That was a good observation, I know your Dad's proud to have a son who's so concerned with gun safety.
  18. jbrown50

    jbrown50 Active Member

    May 30, 2005
    I've introduced many new shooters over the years to firearms and I've never experienced what the op has stated.

    Four months ago, I introduced a former anti-gun co-worker to firearms. Not one time did she exibit an unsafe act. During her formal training course the instructor actually used her to help with the class.

    The few times that I've ever noticed new/inexperienced shooters 'fumbling' at the range I've offered my assistance in helping them to get on track and I don't recall any of them ever getting beligerent with me. I've even assisted young 'gansta' types and haven't been killed, beat up or shot at afterwards.

    All I can say is that having a willingness to effectively communicate with people goes a long way. An arrogant know-it-all impatient and superior attitude never gets you anywhere especially when trying to convert new and potentially new firearms owners.
  19. JoeSlomo

    JoeSlomo Active Member

    Mar 25, 2008
  20. DeepSouth

    DeepSouth Senior Member

    Jan 14, 2009
    Heart of Dixie

    I feel your pain. Many, many times I have handed a gun to someone I know has been around guns all their life, then watched them insert a finger in the trigger guard and not pay attn to where it is pointed. Drives me nuts. I have also had people get offended when I corrected them, but so be it.

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