runningfast
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I couldn't really come up with a more succinct and informative title, so I apologize if it's stilted.
Long story short: if you're in a position where it's not viable for you to be financially independent (re: live on your own), and your parent is adamantly anti-gun, is it unethical to covertly possess a gun in his home, anyway? Let's say you know with absolute certainty that he wouldn't approve, but you feel unsafe without carrying.
Knowing his views on guns (however irrational and culturally conditioned they may be) and his almost certain response to your carrying... are you under any ethical imperative to be open about this?
Part of me says that it's his house, and so if I'm doing something that would make him uncomfortable- even if he's uncomfortable for a silly, unjustified reason- it's my responsibility to be open with him or just not do that thing.
The other part of me says that I know I can be trusted to be safe with a firearm, and as long as my possessing it doesn't impact him or his home or his way of life... I am no more obligated to tell him I have it than, say, a tshirt depicting imagery he'd object to.
I don't want to be a self-serving, snot nosed brat, so I am totally opening myself up here to the possibility that I'm being unreasonable. Am I?
If I know it would bother him to discover something that I can hide easily, am I obligated to share it with him since it's under his roof?
Long story short: if you're in a position where it's not viable for you to be financially independent (re: live on your own), and your parent is adamantly anti-gun, is it unethical to covertly possess a gun in his home, anyway? Let's say you know with absolute certainty that he wouldn't approve, but you feel unsafe without carrying.
Knowing his views on guns (however irrational and culturally conditioned they may be) and his almost certain response to your carrying... are you under any ethical imperative to be open about this?
Part of me says that it's his house, and so if I'm doing something that would make him uncomfortable- even if he's uncomfortable for a silly, unjustified reason- it's my responsibility to be open with him or just not do that thing.
The other part of me says that I know I can be trusted to be safe with a firearm, and as long as my possessing it doesn't impact him or his home or his way of life... I am no more obligated to tell him I have it than, say, a tshirt depicting imagery he'd object to.
I don't want to be a self-serving, snot nosed brat, so I am totally opening myself up here to the possibility that I'm being unreasonable. Am I?
If I know it would bother him to discover something that I can hide easily, am I obligated to share it with him since it's under his roof?