Well, in general people these days are "influenced"--or rather indoctrinated--by the media and social institutions from a young age to hate guns (but love them in movies, apparently
), so I suppose that doing the opposite is also possible. It's a lot easier to teach kids to hate, though, through misinformation, but if they're given an honest perspective and some positive hands-on experience, then they can decide for themselves whether they're naturally inclined to enjoy shooting. It's more of an anti-negative-influence than an actual influence, but I'd never suggest indoctrinating kids to love or hate anything like anti-gunners and environmental extremists, for example, try to do (I'm all for conservation, but I'm even more for common sense and critical thinking as opposed to the latest fad to supposedly save something).
My father owned several guns but he rarely shot them. He didn't make a hobby out of shooting. He did teach my brothers and I to shoot. I am the only one who likes guns in the family now. My brothers don't even want any of my dad's old guns.
My dad owned at least three guns that I recall: an M1 carbine (like the one he carried in 'Nam), a Colt M1911 (ditto), and a Walther PPK. The only gun that he talked about much was the PPK for some reason, but he never shot them (that I'm aware of), did not keep them loaded for defense (I don't recall having ever seen any ammo in the house), and neither encouraged nor discouraged anybody to like guns and shooting. Without saying a word, he sold them all at some point in time, so I don't have any of them now. My own interest in firearms as a hobby and for defensive purposes far exceeds his, so I guess I'm naturally inclined toward liking them, although I imagine that I would have become a gun owner a lot sooner if my dad had encouraged the family to shoot and become more comfortable and familiar with firearms (particularly as kids--all I ever shot as a kid was a BB gun, learning all by myself, but it was still a form of shooting).
Is it possible to influence your kids to get into shooting?
All you can or should do is encourage them in order to see whether it catches on. Sometimes the shared experience of a fun family outing that involves shooting can positively influence them a bit, as we're all in large part a collection of associative (i.e. interrelated) experiences and memories.
Is it possible for you to try to influence them into shooting and they just don't get into it even if it is your main hobby?
I think it is both possible to "brainwash" them into liking something to some varying degree (not recommended!
), as well as for them to reject encouragement or even indoctrination altogether (depends on the individual). Hopefully whatever decision they make will be based on real knowledge and personal preferences rather than somebody (e.g. parents or the media or their schoolteacher) beating some kind of dogma (which always includes a huge amount of ignorance) into their heads.
I just hope my kids will enjoy shooting like I do. It would be a shame for my guns to be sold off after I'm gone.
I'm with you there, but individuals ultimately have to decide for themselves who they are and what they like to do. Even if shooting doesn't catch on with your kids, however, hopefully their memory of you would give your guns a special meaning to them, and of course there will probably be grandkids someday who may be interested.
Similarly, my Dad never worked on our vehicles. Understood how engines and mechanical systems work (he's an engineer after all) but didn't build up or repair any of our rides when I was a kid and always bought pretty plain jane cars/SUVs. When I became old enough to learn such things, vehicles (well, Jeeps and trucks) became one of my personal passions and that was my thing that I learned on my own and practiced on my own -- almost entirely outside of his influence.
My main interests are exclusively my own, as well, as nobody else in my family is into firearms or astronomy (I'm "shooting for the stars," I guess
). I don't believe that I would have been discouraged had elder family members had the same interests, though, because I'm not known to be "rebellious" in that way (I like what I like and don't feel a need to either be the same as or different from anybody else).