What did OP's post accomplish? Well, probably helped blow off some steam. Hey, we all need to rant every now and then, whether it accomplishes anything or not.
Here are some random thoughts:
Explaining rules increases compliance, imho. If a range is going to heavily restrict what people can or can't do, then they should explain why.
Certain things are understandable - "no headshots" rules make a certain amount of sense if the targets are suspended and the hanging system might be harmed by shots that go too high.
Here's an idea about the whole "human face" situation - I took a tactical class in which the instructor had custom made targets with a simple black rectangular black box around what he called the "ICOC" - intra cranial ocular cavity. The premise is that this is the part of the head where quickly stopping the assailant is most likely.
Here are my questions:
Are "bowling pin" shaped targets (vaguely humanoid) prohibited, too, or are they different enough to pass muster?
At ranges that disallow brass pick-up, how do the ROs handle cleanup? Do range staff pick up the shells, or do shooters that are merely being courteous about cleaning up after themselves risk being accused of theft?