You have a neck tension/setback issue. As others have noted, there are several possible causes. You'll need to isolate some variables. Suggested order of working through the problems:
- Measure the bullets. Make sure they are not undersized. If they are .355 or above, proceed to step 2.
- Use a known good brass of a single headstamp type. Ideally, use some new brass. If the problem persists even with new, high-quality brass, proceed to step 3.
- Check the adjustment of your sizing die. Make sure that it is touching the shell plate. Resize a cartridge and see whether the resized cartridge (without bullet or, obviously, powder) will fit easily into a case gauge. If it fits into the gauge, proceed to step 4.
- Skipping powder and expansion/belling, seat a bullet. You will have to be delicate with this, but unless your bullet has a very square base, you should be able to do it. It may take a try or two. Once done, apply pressure to the bullet nose to check for setback. If it is solid, proceed to step 5.
- Back out your expander die until it is just dropping powder, then turn it back in the smallest amount you can get away with and still get bullets started without having to spend 30 seconds on every bullet. Check tension on a finished round as in #4.
- Repeat #5 with crimp die, remove just enough crimp to plunk in a case gauge.
The stage at which you hit a failure will let you know at least the
first root cause of your trouble. It is possible, though not super likely, that you are doubling up on errors.