Another vote for not mixing 12 gauge and 20 gauge in the house.
How about a Ruger PCC 9mm carbine for the wife and a 12 gauge for you? I sent one of these to my sister and family in Michigan to use for home defense. Light weight, accurate, fun, and easy to use for new shooters. Ruger makes a variant for just about every state to include NY and CA.
https://www.ruger.com/products/pcCarbine/models.html
I picked up one for myself as well just so I could answer any questions. Here's a 1 minute 3 second video I made for the family on the basic operation:
How about a Ruger PCC 9mm carbine for the wife and a 12 gauge for you? I sent one of these to my sister and family in Michigan to use for home defense. Light weight, accurate, fun, and easy to use for new shooters. Ruger makes a variant for just about every state to include NY and CA.
https://www.ruger.com/products/pcCarbine/models.html
I picked up one for myself as well just so I could answer any questions. Here's a 1 minute 3 second video I made for the family on the basic operation: