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I'm in the process of moving from a Chicago suburb with a very low crime rate. In the 16 years we lived here we had an armed robbery in front of my house, an attempted break in across the street from me, two shootings I'm aware of and multiple burglaries. It happens even in areas with statistically low crime rates, and yes I carry while at home.
 
For many years my father-in-law kept a variety of loaded handguns hidden in most every room in the house (hidden, not locked up). He passed decades ago and it took a long time to find them all. Mother-in-law now lives with us. Today I have been around the house with IWB 9mm showing, because I took off my polo shirt that normally conceals it, not bothering to tuck my T-shirt over it.. Late this afternoon MiL eventually asked, "Why a gun?" I replied, "Remember when Bob used to keep guns all over the house? It's easier to keep just one with me."
 
I do not believe that it is paranoid to keep a handgun on or about my person. My wife does not believe that it is paranoid to keep a handgun on or about her person. We do not like the concept of stashing a large number of firearms throughout the house. I would rather not be more specific, because, well, my user name is not sufficiently anonymous. Whether I “carry” while inside the home, or just keep the weapon(s) nearby, is a private matter.

We live in a relatively safe small city, which is part of the Houston, Texas metroplex. Our small city PD has truly excellent response time, statistically, but as would be the case with any small PD, one critical incident could require the presence of every available officer. A loop, that is part of the Interstate Highway system, passes through our small city, and we know that criminals can drive automobiles, whether they own the vehicles, or have to borrow or steal them. I am a retired big-city PD officer, and she is retired from the M.E., so we have seen what can happen to folks, and, each of us could be targeted by a vengeful person, OR, be totally randomly attacked. I believe, correctly or incorrectly, that a random attack would be the more-likely event. Such is life.

If our dogs let us know something is not right, while we are at home, we do not have to go looking for weapons.

We both like blade weapons. I am probably more likely to actually use a blade weapon while out and about, than at home, due to the more-stealthy nature of a blade in the hand, than a gun in the hand. (There is less need for stealth at home.) Plus, the early warning systems in place, at home, mean that an intruder is more likely to face a long gun, or a large handgun. I do not choose a blade, to check a “bump in the night.”
 
Stashing weapons around the house would not serve me well. They would be more difficult for me to access than a firearm on my person, they would be accessible to others, and I would have to strap on my carry piece wen leaving the house and handle it when returning.

My pistol stays on me.

Divorced and widowed, no kids, so accessibility isn't a problem. And I usually wear a single blade folder that I keep sharp enough to shave hair off of my arm.
 
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I've worked violent gangs and JTTF. I have put people away who really don't like me and neither do their organizations. Actually, not many people like me but that's not the point. The doors are locked (and reinforced) and I do not doubt my ability, training and 33 year law enforcement experience to handle any situation which arises. I have loaded firearms throughout the house but I don't carry when I'm home. I'm vigilant at all times but also know how to relax. Relaxation is a part of good health.
 
My decision to carry at home involved several factors. One is very specific to the floor layout of the home.

Our old-fashioned first level has an entrance foyer, a living room, a living room, a dining room, a hallway, a kitchen, and some small areas.

There are five possible points of ingress directly in from the outside, and another up from the basement.

I am apt to be anywhere downstairs, or upstairs, at any time before retiring, or on the font porch or on the back porch. My wife could be with me or in another location.

Depending on where I am at the rime and on how a perp might enter, I will very likely be cut off from parts of the house, should sudden entry occur.

It would simply not practical to put guns in hiding places even if I though that prudent. I do not want to carry one and put it next to me all the time.

Keeping my concealed carry piece in a holster on my person best mitigates risks without creating other risks.

It's with me when I leave the house, too.

That's why I bought the holster in the first place.
 
99% of the time I've got my EDC gear on my person.

The exception is at night after settled in for the evening. But there's always something near by.

Thankfully I live way out in the sticks and have good alert systems in place.

If I still lived in suburbia or God forbid the city I'd have a gun glued to my hand.
 
I agree that a knife defense is preferable to a bare-handed defense and that a knife will be more intimidating than having no knife.Ok, I went back and re-read your initial post again to see if I had jumped the track somehow.

What got me thinking you were advocating knives over firearms was this comment: It’s worthwhile to note that defensive encounters don’t seem to frequently involve “weapon upgrades”. Usually a non-LE defender ends up using the first weapon available, rather than fighting to a better one, then maybe to an even better one, etc.

So does it make sense to set up a defensive situation so that a knife is the first weapon will likely be available instead of a handgun? I certainly wouldn’t do that if I had a choice. Rather than stashing knives for use in self-defense, stashing handguns would be a superior strategy. Carrying a handgun would be even better yet—it’s always within reach, always in exactly the same place, and you only need one, (or maybe one plus a spare in the safe in case something happens to the one you're carrying and you don't want to have to wait while you buy another one).

Me:
"Besides, as the saying goes, knives are useful for fighting your way to a handgun, and handguns are useful for fighting your way to a rifle, which is useful for fighting your way to a shotgun."

Gee, John, that was meant as a humorous takeoff on the "saying" that the only reason for a handgun is to fight your way to a rifle.

I was going to add the only reason for a dog was to give you time to get to a knife, but I figured that was stretching a grinnable joke into a groanable joke.

Thee: "Rather than stashing knives for use in self-defense, stashing handguns would be a superior strategy."

:)

Me: Of course, but guns aren't less than $2.00 apiece.

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Thee [attributing the sentiment to JohnKSa]: "Rather than stashing knives for use in self-defense, stashing handguns would be a superior strategy."
John has offered several reasons for his belief that a firearm is far superior to a blade as a defensive weapon. I agree with him completely.

I do not recall his having suggested "stashing handguns".

I do not like that idea at all.

Of course, but guns aren't less than $2.00 apiece.
There are things where skimping on investment is prudent.

Money for tools and equipment for self preservation is not one of them.
 
Short of putting locks on cabinets, my son will find and eat any source of sugar we have in the kitchen. He can blow through half a box of Poptarts at 4AM faster than I have seen adults do it. So staging firearms around is a no go. I either have the firearm on my person or locked up near where I am working in the house.
 
Short of putting locks on cabinets, my son will find a..... So staging firearms around is a no go. I either have the firearm on my person or locked up near where I am working in the house.
We very rarely have kids in the house. We rarely have repairmen who are not under almost constant observation. Most importantly, we "never" have uninvited adults in the house (it is the possibility that some might choose to enter that causes us to remain ready).

None of that makes the stashing of unsecured firearms a prudent idea.
 
As I said, I am untrained in the safe, effective, and lawful use of knives as weapons. My physical condition makes it inadvisable to try to remedy that.

Should the unwelcome visitor who comes upon me offering violence have spent time in The Big House, it is likely that he will be much more practiced in taking a knife from me, and in using it, than I am in preventing him from taking it.

With a firearm? Different situation. For me to use a knife, he will have to "come a little bit closer", in the words of that old song about the little cafe just south of the border.

I really, really do not want him to do that.
 
I do not recall his having suggested "stashing handguns".
Well, I suppose it could be interpreted that way, but you are correct. I'm not suggesting stashing guns as a first-line self-defense strategy, but I do think it's better than stashing knives. Sort of like poking your eye with your finger is better than poking it with a sharp stick.
Me: Of course, but guns aren't less than $2.00 apiece.
No argument there.

Ok, let me try again.

There is a common justification for making inferior self-defense choices. It goes something like this: "I know that there are much better choices for self-defense than X, but you know what they say, 'An X is good for fighting your way to a Y.'" Maybe it's intended to be humorous, maybe it's intended to be serious, maybe a bit of both. Regardless, it's not a rule to live by.

I call it the videogame philosophy of self-defense. It seems to happen only rarely in the real world. In the real world, people don't seem to use the first weapon they grab to fight their way to a superior weapon, they are usually stuck using the first weapon they can put their hands on. If they pick a weapon that's not sufficient for the job, they don't get a chance to make it to a superior weapon. If the weapon they pick works, then they don't need to make it to a superior weapon. Either way, they tend to either succeed or fail with the first weapon they get their hands on.

In other words, setting up a self-defense strategy that involves an inferior weapon as their first line of defense when they could easily have better weapon choices is a bad idea. Relying on a knife as a first line of self-defense when one could rely on a firearm instead is inadvisable.

If one is CONSTRAINED to choose an inferior weapon as a first line self-defense strategy, that's an entirely different matter. You do what you have to do. I'm talking about VOLUNTARILY picking an inferior weapon when other options are just as easily available.

In case it's not clear, there are very good reasons why people don't carry long guns around with them--or, said another way, good reasons why people carry handguns instead of long guns. That's not the kind of choice we're talking about here.

That's the first part. Moving on to the second issue...

There are a number of problems with the strategy of stashing weapons all over the house.

1. Even if small children don't reside in a house, they might visit. Remembering to pick them all up and remembering where they all are, or trying to stash them in childproof locations are all issues.

2. Even if small children never visit, other people may, and again, you either have to collect them all or assume that their presence won't be discovered or that if they are they won't be a problem.

3. Also, they can become weapons of opportunity to use against you. There have certainly been criminals who enter a house unarmed with the express intent of finding a weapon and using it against the occupants. This prevented them from being charged with a weapons offense if they were discovered in the process of breaking in or on the way to a crime. And kept them from having to find/buy a weapon of their own.

4. You have to remember where the nearest one is and get to it when things go sideways. Presumably if you had the time to leisurely retrieve a weapon, you'd go to the safe and get a firearm. So these weapons stashed all over the house are there for when time is very short. But when time is very short, remembering where the nearest one is and getting to it might require more time than is available.

5. You have to have a number of them. This either means a significant expense, or it means that it may be tempting to compromise on quality/performance.

6. People sometimes need self-defense weapons when they're outside of their house--in the front yard, or back yard. Doesn't matter how many weapons there are in the house or how convenient they are to each room if you're outside when you need one.

7. If you are already in an interaction and it starts to look like a weapon might be needed, if you are carrying one you don't have to excuse yourself to go grab the nearest one. Getting it is as unobtrusive as doing NOTHING because you always have it.

What I see is that people get themselves into a weird progression of rationalization that leads to decisions that could never be justified if they were taken individually.

It's a rare person who would argue that a knife is a superior self-defense weapon compared to a gun. We've all heard the old saw about knives and gunfights. And Kleck's done a study that conclusively shows that guns are much better at keeping the defender uninjured than knives.

It's a rare person who would argue that Dollar Store level merchandise is superior to quality equipment.

So how does one justify choosing a $2 knife over a handgun for self-defense? It sounds crazy when you break it down to the bottom line, doesn't it?

It all stems from the initial assumption that carrying a self-defense weapon isn't a reasonable choice.

Don't get jammed up by an initial assumption that isn't really valid in the first place.

If the concern is that a weapon will be needed urgently, the solution is to carry a weapon, not to stash weapons all over the place. Then it's always immediately available, always under your control, always in exactly the same place--and you only need one so you don't have to skimp on quality/performance.

When picking a self-defense weapon, pick a good one. I'm not saying it has to be the IDEAL weapon, before someone cracks back about whether or not I have M2 emplacements around my house. I'm not saying that legitimate issues about weapon selection should be ignored--if concealability is critical, there's no need to explain why a handgun is chosen over a long gun--if legalities prevent the possession of a firearm that's a valid reason to choose a less effective weapon, etc.

I'm just saying make a good choice from the available reasonable options.
 
I live in a rural area 300 yards off a paved highway. Anyone entering the driveway sets off an alarm in the house (we have very few uninvited visitors). When I'm working out side or on the tractor or mower, I carry a Kel Tec PMR 30. If the work promises to be dirty, or I'm crawling around under a vehicle, I have a Kahr .380 in a pocket holster which stays there when I'm in the house. No kids or random adults, so I do have a Smith 9mm in the drawer of my computer desk. Mossberg Shockwave by the bed, Kimber .45 on the nightstand. SKS tucked in the closet.
 
Excellent post, John!

Let me pull on a few things.

There have certainly been criminals who enter a house unarmed with the express intent of finding a weapon and using it against the occupants.
I had that happen. The perp made an improvised weapon by breaking a glass item for slashing. My presentation of a S&W Model 39 from behind my leg dissuaded him and prevented close quarter combat and injury.

Even if small children don't reside in a house, they might visit.
Yes, and it's not the odds, it's the stakes.

But when time is very short, remembering where the nearest one is and getting to it might require more time than is available.
That becomes much more of an issue when someone who has entered gets between you and the closest stashed firearm.

It all stems from the initial assumption that carrying a self-defense weapon isn't a reasonable choice.
Yes, andne would have to figure out how to conclude that carrying a firearm all day when one ia not in the house is somehow more reasonable
 
We reside in a semi-rural ( Mostly Rural) county There is a weekly news paper that has our largest population center police department and the county sheriffs department weekly reports. Violent crime is rare but the nettlesome aspect is illicit drugs is an apparent problem/issue. With that said we take prudent percussions. Being alert is one of those percussions along with not being fat, stupid and lazily. Armament is subjective in regards to environment. Lets just note that we are adequately prepared.
 
Wife sometimes thinks I am paranoid.

Paranoid is an interesting word. Usually I hear it being used to disparage someone for taking a potential hazard or threat more seriously than the accuser would care to.

I once went for a walk with a date and got caught out in the rain. She looked up and exclaimed "But they said there was only a 20% chance of rain!" To which I replied "Well, it's 100% happening."
 
I once went for a walk with a date and got caught out in the rain. She looked up and exclaimed "But they said there was only a 20% chance of rain!" To which I replied "Well, it's 100% happening."
Yep, kinda off-topic, but I've occasionally accused those TV weather reporters of not having enough sense to look out the window to see what's going on before the say, "20% or 30% chance of rain or snow today."o_O
 
Yep, kinda off-topic, but I've occasionally accused those TV weather reporters of not having enough sense to look out the window to see what's going on before the say, "20% or 30% chance of rain or snow today."o_O
They get it wrong when they are looking out the window. :)

Two best jobs in the world, TV weatherman and an Architect. Both are well paid and always wrong. :)
 
I keep a firearm or a couple close at hand. But soon I may start carrying around the house. I intend to get my concealed carry permit this Summer and I want to make sure my gear suits me and get comfortable with it beforehand.
 
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