Reloading 38 special, 357magnum, and 44 magnum are good cartridges to learn with. They are also generally more forgiving with bullet substitutions, particularly 38 special, but also the magnums at starting loads.
When figuring data for a bullet I have no specifics for, I try to find a similar bullet that takes up the same case volume.
An example, the lee 358-140-SWC, it has nearly the same measurement from the base to the crimp groove as the RCBS 38-150-SWC. Since the latter is a copy of the Lyman 358477, you can use any of the data for either two, as a starting point.
Using this method, you use the closest weight bullet you have data for if you have several of varying weights but similar used case volume. You wouldn't want to use (as example) a 180 grain bullet in place of a 140 grain, even if the used case volume is the same, but if you had a 145 grain bullet you could safely use the 140 grain data.
I collect sample bullets as I encounter them for measuring and as general reference. It helps later on in developing data.
One consideration is, some cartridges are more forgiving than others. 38 special usually has a small charge of powder and an airspace below the bullet. Changing bullets to a different one will change pressure, but to a lesser degree than the same bullet change in 357 magnum, as 357 magnum generally uses more powder with minimal airspace below the bullet.
One thing you can do is ask for help developing a load with your specific components. Someone might have used that combo and be willing to help.
Bullet diameter makes only the slightest difference in pressure. So a bullet of .357 and a bullet of .358 diameters will load with the same data and have the same pressure. Speer manual 2 (I think) has a test in it where they pressure tested 38 with bullets of various diameters (up to .362 if I recall correctly) that shows diameter makes no meaningful difference in pressure.