ive read and enjoyed many of Heinlein's books, but i don't think i would like the man very much at all.
His books were enjoyable to read, but they really bring to light what i see as very odd and disturbing psyche of R.H. Now, i am a firm believe that you reveal part of youself unconsiously when you write, paint, draw, or whatever. Take JRR Tolken, the man was a fan of pipe smoking and it shown through in his books.
Lets take my favorite tale, Starship Troopers. Great book. Great main character. But R.H.'s screwed up psyche shows up in the character of the father. Review. His father is vocally anti military, wants the kid to take over family business, kid goes marines, father disowns him. Father shows up at the end, all docile like a beaten dog, admits he is wrong, ends up serving under his son. Just too much of a juvenile fantasy of 'my parents are wrong! i hope X happens then they will come crawling back to me admitting they were wrong, and maybe ill let them come be servants in my big mansion'.
This really becomes evident in his book Farlain's Freehold (name may be wrong). I too enjoyed this book, saying 'what would i do in such and such a circumstance myself' But look at how this main character treats his son and wife. He supposedly thinks about divoce, but cannot do it because he made a vow on his wedding day, yet he is able to use the excuse of his wife in a moment of histeria to 'annul' their marriage. And his committment to his wedding day vow prevents him from divorcing his wife, but not from banging the college hottie his daughter brings home? Plus the incestuous nature of the father-daugher relation, when she tells him if she had to choose a lover to continue the human race, the daughter would chose the father, and he should already know that? Or letting the son take care of the mother, and thinks the boy deserves what he got when the boy co-operates then gets castrated, and doesn't realize how he as been domesticated? To me, that father didn't teach his son very well at all, and if he has no other regrets about the situaiton taht would should have appeared. No 'what kind of man am I to have failed to teach my son these critical values!' just 'his mother spoiled him, i could do nothing, he got what he deserved!'. Back to the wife. She was supposedly a great trooper when life was tough, but could not handle the 'easy life' when he got rich. Bull????. And even if that was the case, for man so hung up on his marital vows, why didn't he try and get her involved with a charity or some organization rather than laze around the house being fat and rich if that lazyness was what was destroying her? He supposedly builds this incredibly elaborate shelter because of his marital vows require him to look after her. How about you spend some time with your wife rather than spend 5 years constructing the perfect bomb shelter, maybe then you wouldn't have these marital problems.
Aside from psyche, i got a kick out of how this guy had a pair of .22 magnum rifles for the womenfolk. Guess what, if a bomb blows you back to the pioneer days, your womenfolk better be able to handle a 30-30, if not a 30-06. Also i got a laugh when this supposedly smart main character decided he would build an aquaduct to bring running water to the dwelling, from like 5 miles away! Building an aquaduct is the kind of work an entire city undertakes, not something 3 guys who fell out of the sky are going to be able to handle. Plus the idea that with the right books you can do anything. I am sorry, but nope. Books can lead and inform, but hands on experience is important too. I wouldn't let the smartest guy on earth perform a triple by-pass on me after just reading a few medical text books, I'd want an average intelligence doctor who had done it 50 times before.
Of course, happy man, happy wife, no bomb shelter = end of book in the first 2 chapters.
It's just really telling to me that heinlien included these what i see as negative characteristics in his main characters unconsiously. Normally he tries to build very perfect heros, I don't think he was trying to build in psychological problems the way some crime novelists have private eyes who have drinking problems and are on their 3rd marrage.