Man, I wonder if you're still reading this thread? If you are, there's some good advice here. And of course some other points of view. This is what makes our country so great. You have a choice, and so do they. We can all have the freedom of voice. And not be afraid to express our opinions. That said, as a training ground, our military can be a great means to our goals. Supporting our country, the theme of democracy world wide along the way is a huge bonus. I'm only 43 years young. I served two tours with the USN from 84-91. I got to go to the gulf in 87' and 89'. No real action as one would consider a conventional war on the ground or "sand" as it is. Sure, some scares, fires aboard ship, lost aircraft from missions far away, and right next to ship. Some minimal attack attempts made at us. As an Aviation Electrician I was helping the cause from the backfield, proud of my work. Proud to keep the shipmates that I supervised safe as I possibly could. It's not all about carrying a weapon and searching out insurgents. But if you think the Special Forces is for you, get with some that are currently serving. Let them tell you first hand what it's like. What it takes.
Since you're already in college, all I can stress is to finish at least your two year transfer degree in general studies if you haven't decided upon what you would further your education in. Once you've joined the military, it's difficult if not almost impossible to finish. (A lot easier if you're stationed stateside, but no guarantee.) If you're thinking about engineering then I hope you're a mathematics natural. You'll need it. Go to the Unemployment Office and ask to research the top ten under-staffed careers in a pay bracket that you'd be comfortable in. There might be a carreer center at your college that can help with this information too. (Set your goals much higher than your parent’s goals. Doing better than them will make them more proud of you than you could ever imagine.)
Then look to any of the military disciplines that will help you get to that career. One that truly interests you. One that has options that you'd be happy with if your first choices don't work out. Make sure your ASVAB is your best possible effort. (There are fake tests out there that can help prepare you for this.) Like someone else said, GET THE SCHOOL GARRANTEED. I doubt that any college student would limit themself to being an infantryman. Now that's not a slam on them. Not at all. But the ASVAB testing scores places them right there with boatswain’s mates. Schools are short. The rest you can learn on the job. Seabees. Information Technology, Electronics, Nuclear and Medical Technology, Seals, ... OK, and Special Forces specific disciplines. Don't count out the Air Force either. There are equivelent jobs and training available.
You work with a couple of ex-Marines. Is this is where you'd like to end up.. Framing houses for a living? For the next 20+ years? Come on, you're going to be a college graduate some day. Is this were you see yourself? You've got a year of school. Why go half way and not finish? Do you have opportunity to go to a 4 year University? Do you realize the difference in pay, and living conditions for Military Officers as compared to NCO's? That four-year degree in engineering or mathematics or computer science will set the foundation for what could be a great military career. -I don't knock the enlisted man. Don't get me wrong. I was one. Real workers are needed. But good leaders are also.
You need to widen your thoughts. Don't join the Army just to be a Special Forces Candidate. When you come back to the world, you'll still need to put food on the table, have a mortgage to pay, kids to put through college, a wife to provide for. If you're willing to put your life on the line for your country and it's beliefs, then make sure you've taken advantage of all the opportunities to learn that which will help you in later life.
The Navy set me on my way to a couple of good careers. There are things out of our control that change things. At 30yrs old, I went back to school.
The biggest regret in my life- Not continuing on to college after highschool.
Spoken from experience,
-Steve