Purse snatching potential, what to do?

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I posed a secondary question on another thread, http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?t=277049, that I felt needed an expansion on my thought process behind the initial question.

So, you wife's purse gets snatched. In that purse are all of her ID, her credit cards, car keys, house keys, maybe office keys. Did she have anything like business cards or maybe a company sponsered medical insurance ID card (which lists the employer's name)? If he gets away, since he now knows where you live from her driver's license, you're looking at rekeying your house and your cars. Her employer has to deal with the expense of rekeying the office. You get to cancel all the credit cards, and get her a new driver's license. Did she, like many women, carry her Social Security card?

If so, you now also have to worry about identity theft.

Since he now knows where you live, is there anything in that purse (like photos of your teenage daughters) that might induce him to watch your house to track your comings and goings, to allow him fairly safe access times? Maybe to break in to the house when no one is home, ransack it, then lay in wait (since he knows when everyone gets home)?
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Maybe I'm just being paranoid. I've moved my wife's purse from the top of the shopping cart down into the bottom enough times while grocery shopping that she now (usually) just puts it in the bottom to begin with. Taking the CC class helped her to realize a bit more that there are bad people out there, so why make it easier for them? But I still worry, because she carries way too many pieces of ID and all of our credit cards, even though we only use one (love the airline miles). On a recent trip to L.A. I carried two wallets. One with my ID and one credit card that we weren't using in one front pants pocket, and another with some cash and the credit card we were using in the other. If I got mugged I would give up the cash and the active card, but not everything. Or at least that was my thought.

Okay, enough rambling for now. Any comments, thoughts, suggestions for the good of the general order?

And I'm not intending to pick on just the ladies and their purses. Many men carry wallets that measure better than 1" thick that if empty are less than half that, so we also carry way too much info as well, should we lose it or have it stolen.
 
Moving her purse down is a huge improvement. So many purses get stolen because people leave their purses up top.

You have to realize it's quite easy to grab a purse and run with it. It might be a good idea to sit down with her someday and decide what needs to be carried, and what doesn't. Don't have "all your eggs in one basket." If this means she's better off carrying things with her name or place of employment on them in a pocket, then do it. Don't leave your keys in your purse, otherwise your mugger now has a get away car.

Photocopy everything in your purse, front and back. This way, in the event of a mugging, you now have a complete record of everything in there. Have a list of the phone numbers you need to call in the event your credit cards are stolen. This way it'll take you five minutes to cancel your cards.

Part of it is preparing for the hypothetical situation of being mugged. Don't have too much to give them. The other part of it is making sure that if you are mugged, you're safe.
 
I get so sick of watching women in stores walk away from their buggy and leave their purse in it unattended. If my wife does that even once, I'll steal it just to teach her a lesson. She always carries hers, in 22 years I think I've only seen her 3 or 4 times that she even let go of it while she was getting her money out.

I have stopped a women at wal mart once and told her she should not leave her purse unattended. Told her if I had noticed and I'm an honest guy think about how many bad guys might have seen it and was just waiting for the chance. She thanked me and retrieved her purse.
 
How creepy would it be to find a note in your purse that said, "If I was a criminal I could have stolen this, have a nice day." :uhoh:
 
Hi All,
I did see a student in our university town using a caribiner (SP?) to fasten her purse to the shopping cart. Didn't lock of course; but, would stop a 'grab n' run'.
Best,
Rob
 
My wife never sets her purse down...

because it has her gun in it.........very seldom do we go to the store alone. I do go alone but I am a 6 ft 250 lb powerlifter and biker so folks usually avoid any close contact with me.......chris3
 
My ex rarely carried a purse.
RNIII and had a copy of Medical Insurance card, in her ashtray.
She carried keys, a small generic "coin purse" that looked more like a ladies small address book with lipstick, gum nail file, SAK classic...

Her "purse(s)" were small.
I mean light and small, and not much of anything , biggest thing was her checkbook, if she carried it, and a ink pen.

Dress purse, again for functions, "not big enough to steal 2 bon bons and bring home".

I know who I am, I do not need a Purse to tell me who I am - and I damn sure do not need/want a Purse to define me to me, or anyone else.
- my ex.

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My mom is 78, cannot walk well and has a "I am a slow old lady, rob me" sign.

Her "big" are not that "big" and these purses have HEAVY straps , with heavy D ring, that go over her head, she never ever wears one "just on shoulder".

Shuffle into a store, she has a small ladies wallet she sticks in her pocket.

I have enough to be concerned about with just being out with her, as she is slow, and I can't very well run off and leave her.
I do not want a purse drawing attention to her in the first place.

Mom's best friend, for over 50 years, was attacked in a parking lot, purse drew the attention, and this friend died of injuries and complications.

I only had to suggest once, mom re-think, and make some changes. I did it the day she went to the funeral.
 
Forget the purses. What about the kids left unattended in the cart and then the guardian goes to the next isle? I saw a lady at walmart do this and then a lady at ralieghs(sp). I am not women bashing that's just what I saw today.
 
What about the kids left unattended in the cart and then the guardian goes to the next isle?

Babysit that screaming brat for a while and you'll understand. Just kidding, kind of. I don't condone it, just making a lil joke.

My wife tends her purse rather well, when she doesn't, she reminds me to while she runs off the find the stuff I can't. If she carries one at all. She usually has one of the small coil purses that she carries her id, cards and cash in. The purse is for all that girly stuff a male BG wouldn't have much use for anyway.
 
I think that a lot of people overlook a lot of the risk of leaving unattended purses in the basket. We all think that it won't happen to us.
 
I did see a student in our university town using a caribiner (SP?) to fasten her purse to the shopping cart. Didn't lock of course; but, would stop a 'grab n' run'.
A security guard at a store taught me something along the same line, use the child restraint to buckle the purse to the cart. When I am not using a cart and if the strap is long enough I cross carry.

Another thing I do is after I unlock my van and open the hatch to load my groceries I lock all the other doors. The few access points the better. My friends think I am paranoid. :rolleyes:
 
From the local paper:
http://www.heraldextra.com/content/view/222804/

A woman dining at P.F. Chang's reported her wallet missing from her purse at 7 p.m. Edwards said she had hung her purse on the back of her chair, and sometime during the meal someone walked off with her wallet.

Edwards said the thief immediately went to Best Buy and used her Discover Card to purchase two laptop computers. The thief also bought a cell phone and $2,000 in prepaid calling cards.

Just shows that the damage can happen rather quickly.
 
I knew a lady, just before she retired. If I were among friends, I would call her "hood". There is no term that comes immediately to mind that is accurate but less possibly offensive.

Told me how her mother (all of 78 years old) was walking to Aldi(sp?) to buy her groceries, when some youth tried to steal her purse. She yanked it back and whacked him.

Funny part is, it turns out old ladies in this neighborhood know well enough to stick the money in a ziploc baggie and tuck it in the, ahem, cargo area that advanced age creates. Nothing in that purse but half a brick - for just such an occasion!
 
Women will never reach full equality with men unless and until they master the complicated technology of 'pockets'.
 
I never, NEVER let go of my purse when I am grocery shopping. I am almost always wearing it; if I absolutely must set it down, I have my arm through the strap and am standing right there. I know lots of other women like to carry a ton of supplies and other things in their purse, like bandaids, nail clippers, tissues, etc etc, but getting rid of all non-essential items will make it very easy to have a small purse that is easily carried all of the time, even when grocery shopping.
 
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