*** is going on next door?

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JimmyG

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I live in an older neighborhood...a mile from an active-duty navy base and a mile from 'downtown' in the other direction. 'Hood' was built/developed immediately post-WW2, i.e. 1k-2k square feet single-family residences, mostly owned, but some rented, and more rented with every passing day.

Those owners who rent these houses out don't seem to care whose money they're collecting as long as they're collecting it. In the meantime, the renters (occupants) degrade the neighborhood in various and sundry ways and make "ownership" a deplorable position.

Recently, our next-door neighbor, a male, whose wife and two teen-aged children have left him, is having some questionable visitors. In short, a forty-something white man who used to be married and had two kids and a job is now accepting into his home 'apparently' undersirable peeps and they're on the dark/blind side of our house. If we were a main-battle-tank, we'd be requesting our wing-man to "scratch our back" and git these MF's off of us.

But alas, we're not a MBT...we're residents of a shotgun house in a shotgun neighborhood and we want some freakin' attention.

Mid-forties white guy, whose wife and two teen-aged girls left a couple of months ago, is now having new and questionable guests at his house, which house is only twenty feet from ours on our 'blind' side. White 45-year-old has 30-year-old whorish-looking chick riding a bicycle visiting...she won't speak to us or neighbors and sits on his steps waiting for his arrival with her head in her hands...suspected crack-house thugs from three doors down come around now and they're black and white and young and old and come at all hours of the freakin' night...****ing doo-rags on their heads and Rastafa hair-do's and wasted-looking whores and chirren following them...

Pardon me for wasting your bandwidth, but I just answered my own question. The 'good' column in this equation has no chance of trumping the 'bad' column, and just to make sure, me and the other male members that give a **** about the neighborhood are gonna 'intervene' on it (AND WE'D APPRECIATE YOUR THOUGHTS/BLESSINGS).

We're going to get together, get our facts straight, approach him when he's alone, and make certan that he understands our concerns, our fears, our wishes, and our future actions if 'social freaks' continue to stream into his residence, not only at odd hours, but at any hour. Had it up to 'here' with the neighborhood going to the dogs.

However, we don't expect that plan to work. We fully expect that he's too far gone to respect our position. We plan that phase as an interim, to be documented and recorded, and to be a prelude to more stringent, er, 'police' action.

We're peeps who are getting to know each other as neighbors (at long last) and we're not gonna take this **** anymore. But having said that, we know we need to be careful. What say you THR???
 
Personally unless you see something vriminal, I don't think it is any of your business who this guy's friends are. If you do see somehting criminal call the police.
 
I once lived in a similar "Hood" environment it was always a joy to have cops on live two or three times a night right outside your living room or on the same street
One would come back from church or a movie and step on a chalk line or a shell casing that wasn't there when you left.:fire::cuss::fire::cuss:

If you do not have one already start a neighborhood watch get organized with the neighbors who care and the homeowners who also care and pick a good block captain.

Blight and certain activities devalue property if you have slumlords document illegal activities and record them if need be take slumlords to court there are ordinances and laws that more often than not are not enforced.
The squeaky wheel gets the grease!;)

Find out who the good beat officers are also get involved with your city or town council meetings and if need be the mayor.;)

A phone tree list is a good thing to organize among the neighbors who care about decency or crimes being committed.

A pad and paper and a phone call can do wonders over time criminals hate the old widow or granny who sits in her front room with nothing better to do than write and call.

If people are living within the law (as they should be) and are being DECENT they have the right to privacy and living without being bothered in any way.

Its when you see drug deals and tricks being turned and needles on the ground and the shootings at all hours of the night you can either get involved hide or move.

The fight can take months or even years to clean up problem neighborhoods and in the end the tide fills the void when the good decent honest citizens vacate and move out.

Good luck on your situation I feel your pain been there done that hope to never do anything like those years again.

PS if its any consolation my block set a record in my old town with 97 separate incident reports in a 1 month period.:fire:
 
Police action is fine- call the police with your concerns.

"... more stringent, er, 'police' action," however, sounds too much like a non-High Road approach. Closed.

lpl/nc
 
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