Same here, Tom. My wife and I extend our most sincere condolences.
It just so happens my wife bought her first carry gun today. I think we'll name it "Grits" in your father's honor. It's a Smith & Wesson Model 432PD.
Woody
In life's quests for all things gold, don't discount the money, but take some time for fulfillment, satisfaction, and a few of the things in life that are often beyond the bounds of mere security.
As you approach the winter of your life, many will be the times you will bask in the warm glow of those memories.
The chilling lament of deeds undone, of loves passed over, of adventures put off and missed, and freedoms lost is nothing less than the cold, hard ground. That is a death before death.
Live your life, warm your heart, and you'll put the Devil's flames to shame when you warm the Earth with your bones.
I'm sure Grits led such a life.