Magnum357,
I'm glad to find out that her main concern was safety.
Definitely get at least a small desk safe.
I think a good answer to the question "Why do you need two guns"
Because I'm not always here when you are and I want you to be safe.
Thats a good one.
But when it turns to 3,4,5,6,10 guns.....
If she is like my wife... or most wives I know.....
We have matching dinner place settings for 12 people. (use a different ex if this doesnt apply)
Its me, my wife and sometimes my 20 yr old daughter. Thats 2 people 80% of the time and 3 people another 19.7% of the time. That leave about a .3% chance we "need" more than 3 place settings. I understand they are often sold in even #'s so thats 4.
But we have 12..... thats 8 extra. 3 x what we "need".
So, I ask.... why do we "need" place sittings for 12? Her answer is always that we need them for guests.
I remind her that we dont have guests often. She says but we do and they will needs plates and utinsils etc.
Then I remind her that our table only seats 6 people.... so why do we need enough for 12?
She says... well, they can sit at the bar. I say, +4, ok thats 10 max total. Why 12?
Her: We have patio furnature (seating for 6). People could be inside and outside eating.
Me: That would be a BBQ and we wouldnt use our dishes (paper plates most likely).
Me again: Your reason is you "want" them... "just in case" we "need them". Well..... thats why people have more than 1 gun. JUST IN CASE. Insurance? Just in case. A flashlight? Just in case. A spare tire? Just in case. An extra 24 roll pack of toilet paper? Just in case. LOL
She used to be neutral to guns but nervous if one was in plain site.
She still will say "theres a gun on you night stand" as if I would be surprised to learn that I left it there.
BUT, she now has her CCW. She still needs more practice to be more comfortable. And she still needs to decide which guns she wants to call her own. And she still needs to start carrying. She works alone alot and can carry.
"Compromise" sometimes carry's a negative conatation. Listen. Discuss. Ask questions. Dont dismiss her feelings. Negotiate.
If that doesnt work. You're SOL.
I did see you got it worked out. I just felt you or someone else might gain something from my input.
Or, maybe not