Some will say she shouldn't be shooting it at all for any reason.
Mostly people who will also say, either openly or to themselves, that YOU shouldn't be shooting either.
Some will say she shouldn't be shooting it at all for any reason.
It's too bad I feel I need to explain myself.
"Mostly people who will also say, either openly or to themselves, that YOU shouldn't be shooting either."
I hope you don't really believe they never touched your loaded firearm when you weren't there. They most certainly did. But if they were properly educated they would be safe regardless whether you are there to supervise or not.When I had young kids at home, they were taught gun safety and familiarization at the age of 6. By taking the mystery out of it, they had no issues about trying to sneak a peek or similar. There was one loaded gun out of the safe - it was in my nightstand - they knew it was there - they knew to never touch it or tell their friends about it if they ever wanted to go shooting with me or be able to sit down again. It worked for me. Now and again when we go on trips, one of them will watch the house and dog - they know where that pistol is and a shotgun that is stashed somewhere else; again no issues
You know your child - introduce her, maybe buy a .22 and take her with you so she can see the fun side of things you are going to have to overcome years of school indoctrination, so go slow and easy, make her feel comfortable, and she might become your new shooting buddy
txhoghunter, I said in my OP that I am already registered for the CCW course as well as an NRA-instructed firearms class, both this month. What I didn't mention is that after those two courses, I'm taking this class: http://shoot2live.com/Steps%201%20&%202.html.Even the most experienced shooters here go to shooting classes Ally, it isn't anything personal. The fact that this is your first handgun is just all the more reason to get to one ASAP.
And fwiw, these classes will teach you much more and much better than 99% of LEO's
The classes will also teach you great ways to safely store your gun
I agree 100%. I told her when I bought it not to tell people that I have one. A week later she told me about telling her friend, (she "forgot" not to say anything). No, a 14-year old girl cannot be trusted to keep her mouth shut. There's precious little I can do about that. But I can keep the gun locked in a safe if she's home and so is the gun, as has been suggested, and that puts an end to that problem.The question whether your daughter can be trusted to handle firearms safely, follow rules, and treat them with respect is not the problem.
The problem is can she keep her mouth shut? The problem is peer pressure. The worst case scenario would go something like this:
She has friends over and you are either not there or you are in the yard or something like that. While watching a movie or discussing a movie one of the friends says something about firearms. Your daughter inadvertently reveals that there is a REAL firearm in the house when she responds to the friend's comment about firearms. The friends become fascinated and WILL NOT LET IT GO until they can see it.
You can imagine the rest from there. Your daughter will lose control of the situation...the friends are not schooled in proper firearm safety and respect for firearms and they wont listen to her pleas. The gun goes off. Someone is hurt bad. The parents who are also ignorant about firearms will automatically blame you and your firearm.
I think what he was trying to say is that those who will say a 14 year-old shouldn't be handling a firearm are probably the same ones that will say NO ONE should be handling firearms."Mostly people who will also say, either openly or to themselves, that YOU shouldn't be shooting either."
Wow. That's quite a stretch of a judgment on me. FWIW, I shoot with a LEO, and everything I know at this point has been taught to me by a LEO.
It's too bad I feel I need to explain myself.
I shoot with a LEO, and everything I know at this point has been taught to me by a LEO.