Eddie, it's called a favor. You can do or not do a favor for someone who asked it of you. It doesn't have to be for you, it might be for your son, "like put in a good word for him" or your father, or anyone, favors aren't limited to ones self.
Has no one ever asked nor you ever asked someone for a favor for another person. If not then I find that hard to believe. Getting in the teamsters, or the TA, or any good job that requires you make a call, is a favor.
My step son got on the LIRR, because a Police Leutenent called in a favor.
If you don't know anyone that can call in a favor if need its a very lonelly world in certain areas of the country.
You can't even get an interview these days unless someone knows someone and calls in a favor to even get you in the door. That's the way big cities work, you want to get a starting salary of $75,000 per year, in NY sanitation, you need someone to call in a favor or you will die of old age before you get called, same with most any city or Govt job, when I took the Police test 100 years ago, they were not hiring, you had to know someone of wait 3 years for the magic listto open again. they even freeze dissability for people who are missing limbs, "sorry we aren't giving dissabillity for 2 years, you are on the list. So you can go starve and live on air until they unfreeze the list. Unless you can call someone.It's the way of the world, no one said it was right, only that it is what it is.
Until the day comes when everyone is equal, favors are just part of life, like it or not. Teachears make 30 grand a year, and garbage truck drivers start at 100,000 in private sanitation, for 6 hrs a day. Seniority gets weekends off.