You two are not even married yet, and she is already dictating how you will live your life.
Praxidike said:It's more of an annoyance than anything. It just gets old having to hide the crap, explain myself, and not dealing with all the drama...
Praxidike said:I'm going to let her read some of these post
My ex wife is extremely liberal and is 100% anti-gun which is strange because here father is a hunter and eats venison (she has as well). Anyway, at a recent custody visitation hearing, she found out that I legally own a firearm, and she brought it to the judges attention as if I was committing a crime or was some how a danger because of it. In the finial visitation order, the liberal judge stated that I'm not allowed to have my firearm when my child is around. Basically, I can not legally conceal carry or have my firearms in my home during my visitation. Now, I could understand this if there was any history of me legally exercising my 2nd amendment rights somehow endangered my children in the past (like me leaving a loaded gun on laying around), or even if I had a violent criminal past, but I do not.
My question is, can this legally be enforced and is this even legal for a family court judge to right into a visitation order?
And you're about to repeat the same mistake again.
What am I missing?
Just an annoyance? Things that "annoy" you now will be what drives a wedge between you later. You'd be surprised what you THINK you can put up with that down the road leads to a lot of bitterness between you two. Drama? You ain't seen nothin' yet...let this charade continue for a few more years into marriage and you'll get to see some real drama. Religion and politics are two things that should not be mixed when getting married if you ask me.LOL mine too man. All my family are New York Liberals... I figured there would be more who were in my situation, but I guess not. I'm not too worried about the fiance, or the fam. It's more of an annoyance than anything. It just gets old having to hide the crap, explain myself, and not dealing with all the drama... Because most of you have not had to deal with it, it's like being an Atheist in living in a deeply religious town with deeply religious family...
Dump her. You're potentially exposing yourself to a lifetime of misery. She's afraid of guns. Wait until you have a big argument and she's afraid of your guns. She gets an order of protection and you lose your guns forever. Or wait until you have to sell all your guns to pay her in the inevitable divorce.
Move on, you may be blinded being in the fiance stage, but there's plenty of women out there you can have just as much fun with.