Well to be honest on the lighter bullets....
I picked up a little Ruger for grandson #2 to learn with and use on a few feral hogs on the farm. Since he is a bit on the light farmed side I went with some Hornady 85gr Interbond's, and some H-4895 so as to keep the recoil down some. The lighter loads shoot pretty darned well to be honest as we were only going to allow him to shoot 50yds I wanted to make darned sure they would do what I wanted done. Still the velocity was in the ballpark of around 2700'ish fps give or take.
So I took the loads and the rifle over to a friends place with me while I was helping them out with some work. That next morning I sat a deer stand overlooking some grown over creek bottom in an effort to try them out on a nice fat hog. Well I heard them but they were around a hundred yards over from the stand, so that evening after the work was done I headed back over to try again. This time I set up under a big willow tree which with the limbs drooped down made a great hide out. My bud had also told me if I saw one of a couple of big mature 6 points to go ahead and take them out as he didn't really want them out there.
So just about a half hour left of shooting light here comes ol big 6 strutting right by me less than 50yds, so I took aim on the dimple behind his shoulder and let one of the little pills fly. I could easily tell he was hit solidly by the way he was stumbling across the 75yds or so of pasture to the edge of the wood line. Just inside he piled up rear over ears. I gave him 15 or so minuted while I gathered up my things, and texted my bud I had shot. Then I eased over to find the buck in what I thought were the last throws. Well the way he was laying all I had was a up the rear end shot and I know that isn't a finisher, so I held on him and sat tight, and with one motion he was up on his front end at which point I put another one through his shoulder. He made a skidding run never really regaining his front end and piled up again and was still. It was right at dark and my bud called me to let me know his wife had shot at a big buck with her bow and he wanted me to come help them. I knew I couldn't load the deer by myself so I got up to head their way and I heard the miserable sound of the buck leaving town.
So I went to help them giving him more time, and then after an hour search to find nothing of her deer what so ever we went to the house and changed to go back for mine. When we got back it was very clear the buck was hit good as there was blood everywhere. Not in little drops but in pools. It wa clear right where he hit the edge of the woods, where he piled up the first and second times, and the route he took when he left. We shined up through the thick underbrush and could easily see eyes watching right back at us. I eased around to as good of a clearing as I could get on him and finished him with my 454.
While I fully admit this was a tough ol tush hog of a buck, the fact remains that both of the bullets went in just behind his shoulder less than 2" apart, transected his onside lung a portion of his heart and took the front portion of his offside lung apart. His tenaciousness was really something to behold, but either of the two shots should have taken him down, and with a bigger bullet might have done so a LOT quicker. I found one bullet lodged just under the skin on his offside shoulder where it had come to a stop after going through the scapula and breaking the leg. The other was found up in the back strap when my wife was slicing it up, and I have no idea how it wound up there.
So while there might be a lot to be desired for using a lighter bullet, and while they do in some cases drop deer like the Hammer of Thor, I personally have decided that if the caliber is less than 25, then the bullets will be 100grs no less.
And I might get flamed for saying so, but I have also been there done that with the 85's for quite a few years with no issues. I've also watched as my bud slipped the tiny little pill from his Rem 17 in behind the ears and shoulders of numerous hogs out to 200 or so yards and they simply folded up the landing gear and didn't even kick. That said, I say keep the light weights for the critters, and use a heavier one for the game.