Several things in the distant past have helped my to decide that I have been relying on luck alone, for far too long. The two incidents I'm referring to are;
About 1990, I was enroute from the GM Corvette plant in Bowling Green, Ky to the east coast with 12 new Corvettes; about 20 or 30 miles west of Columbus, Ohio, and heading east on I-70, I had exited at the London exit, and made a left into a McDonald's that had as very large truck parking lot; when you're driving a 75 ft vehicle, with 6 ft of new Corvette sticking out past your windshield, and another one sticking out 4 feet beyond the back end of the carrier, you really need to "think ahead" and try to park in places that you're familiar with; I stopped at this place all the time, so I always drove all the way to the back of then lot, made a 180 turn to the left, and carefully pulled through empty parking spaces until I got back to the front, then started backing up to get my tractor in a straight line with my trailer to park.
As I was backing up, there was a big California Peterbuilt coming in the driveway at about 3 times reasonable speed, then made as fast left turn, and proceeded to drive right behind my car carrier while I was still backing up; I grabbed my CB mike, made the fool in the Peterbuilt aware of my extreme "displeasure", and called him an "unflattering name". As I was getting my truck shut down, and was about to climb out, here comes the TWO guys from the Peterbuilt, the driver swinging a ball bat over his head, and telling me of his intention to "beat me to death" with his bat!
At this point, I had to make a very quick decision; If I get out unarmed, I'm dead; if I get out with my S&W model 66, .357, I can probably "discourage" bat-boy, but I'm very likely to lose my job, as we were NOT allowed to carry a weapon; I'm thinking.....and I rolled my window back down, said, "please come a little closer"; (bat-boy was about 15 ft away, and I wanted him about 8 or 10; ) when he got to maybe 10 ft, I started slowly opening my door, and as I started to climb out, pistol in right hand, I said to "bat-boy", "you should never bring a stick to a gun fight"! Both guys see the gun at the same time, plus now a woman with them had came up, she screams....."he's got a gun".....yeah, I had a gun alright, but I SURE didn't want to fire it and "get fired"! All three made a hasty retreat to the Peterbuilt, and I went into McDonald's.
As I'm about to come back out a few minutes later, I notice a pay phone by the back door; and had a sudden idea.....called the Franklin County Sheriff, ask, "can a ball bat be considered to be a deadly weapon"? dispatcher: "it sure can! I said, meet me right across the road at the truck stop; a Deputy was there within 5 minutes; I asked if I could swear out a warrant against "bat-boy"; Deputy says, yes you can, but you'll have to go too and it will cost you maybe two hours of your time; OR......if you're in a hurry, I'll go get "bat-boy" right now, arrest him and cuff him, and by the time he gets back to his truck TOMORROW, you'll be half way to New Jersey!
As I was pulling out to get back on the Interstate, "bat-boy", was being "assisted" into the back seat of the Deputy's car, hands cuffed behind him! (And no shots were fired! ) I'm now thinking......I seriously doubt if such a bad situation as that will "turn out" as well, very many times. (So don't count on it. )
I learned many things from that potentially BAD situation; I needed to get much better "prepared"; At that point in time, I not only didn't have a CC permit, they weren't even available in Ohio then; and even if I did have a permit, I still wasn't allowed to have a weapon in my truck or on company property.
Maybe 10 years later, I'm unloading a whole load of Jaguars in downtown Louisville, KY at midnight, (in a BAD neighborhood ) as I was returning to my truck from driving a unit inside the fenced in lot, I see two black guys climbing out of my cab, one carrying my suitcase! I'm like 20 feet away, poor light; I have exactly NOTHING in my hands! But I'm MAD AS HELL! As I started towards my truck, (thinking to grab my tie-down bar ), the perp without my suitcase whips out a piece, and starts shooting at me! I couldn't believe it! from the sound, it HAD to be a .22, possibly with blanks, or maybe the perp is just a really bad shot? I should have beat a hasty retreat.......I didn't because.....again....I was Mad as hell! I ran towards the truck, the perps ran down an alley. I grabbed my bar and was 100 ft down a totally DARK alley, starting to get winded, and I suddenly looked at my hand, which is white, and I can't even see my white hand from a foot away! I'm thinking......these guys may as well be invisible! If I can't see me, I sure can't see them! Then I'm thinking.......what is in my suitcase? a few sets of shorts and Tee shirts, pair of work pants, ........I decided to finish unloading my truck and get on to my next stop at Emminence, KY, about 30 miles NE of Louisville; on the way back to the interstate, I had to go right past the main Louisville PD, so I stopped, went in, told them where I had been, what happened, etc etc; The cops look at each other, then at me, said, "son, do you realize what neighborhood you were in! ME: "sure, I unload there 4 or 5 times a month; Cop says.... "You better start bringing a couple of armed guards with you, or come in the day time"!
Looking back, I'm thinking now, "how did I ever survive for 40 years, unarmed, bad neighborhoods, middle of the night......I was not only lucky ......I was stupid! (and VERY "unprepared", with NO "plan"! ) Which is dumb! I now have a plan, and I'm now getting "prepared". Now that you've read this, you already know what NOT to do! DO NOT "get mad"! Getting mad is likely to get you DEAD! Do as much of your thinking as possible, ahead of time. If you're ever confronted with a weapon, run! The other way! Don't try to be a hero; (you'll end up being a dead dummy! ) Keep your wits about you, and THINK!
In the last 2 or 3 years, I've read a LOT; I've become very familiar with many of the top gun writers and trainers; My favorite of all.....is Massad Ayoob; I think Ayoob is a very "steady", no BS kind of guy; The next big step in my plan is scheduled for this coming Thursday; I'm having a cataract removed from my left eye, and will shortly be able to see with both eyes; That should improve my shooting quite a bit.