Just to add a tid bit, my same Daughter also shoots a 300 Weatherby mag hunting in Montana , slightly lower than my center hit but still gets the job done for a first time beyond a hundred yards up hill and over the hood of a truck. She burned a hole through 1/4 steel plate at 200 yards ( notice the finger in the hole)I lost count where shooters brought their girlfriends/wives to the range to try different pistols while the guys are talking about which compact pistols are better suited, the girlfriends/wives shoot the full size 1911s/Glocks and go, "I like this". When we stop to think about it, many male shooters like shooting full size 1911s/Glocks so why wouldn't anyone else regardless of gender.
I was pleasantly surprised to see how many female shooters with smaller hands liked to shoot full size 1911. And when we asked, "Aren't you bothered by the recoil?", they give us the, "You are crazy" look.
Now, when girlfriends/wives are shooting different 9mm/40S&W/45ACP pistols, I stay quiet and firmly recommend others to do the same and let the female shooters make their own choice based on how accurate and fast they can comfortably shoot each pistol. In the past 20 years I have taught people to shoot, majority of female shooters ended up choosing 40S&W and 45ACP pistols, even for carry.
When a neighbor's girlfriend whose work got robbed at gun point wanted a carry pistol, we had her shoot various caliber pistols and we figured she may choose a 9mm compact but after shooting my Glock 23 with factory ammunition, she immediately said that was the pistol she wanted. It was also the pistol she shot the most accurate.
Just to add a tid bit, my same Daughter also shoots a 300 Weatherby mag hunting in Montana , slightly lower than my center hit but still gets the job done for a first time beyond a hundred yards up hill and over the hood of a truck. She burned a hole through 1/4 steel plate at 200 yards ( notice the finger in the hole)
Proud Papa....
She actually prefers it over her 7 magI shutter from here. .404 Jeffery or .470 NE is fine. A .300 Wby is something I would just as soon avoid (I had one and learned to tolerate it. I don't miss it).
My wife has badly damaged hands and wrists. It is very difficult for her to absorb much recoil or rack the slide on anything. She does just fine with 32 H&R magnum revolvers. They are simple to operate and she feels confident with them.
Because these assumptions are from people that don't have small hands and don't understand the issue. The issue is trigger reach and not how many fingers fit on a grip.
My wife's problem isn't the size of her hands...it's the strength of her hands/arms.
Grip is fine...holding a gun is fine...trigger operation is fine...shooting is fine.
In fact, all operations of semiautomatic handguns is fine EXCEPT racking the slide.
I'm sorry to say that your wife doesn't exist, just like my mom didn't exist. None of these problems exist according to some.
But in a hypothetical situation where such a creature existed I would recommend having her try an auto with a hammer and cocking the hammer first to see if she can cock it. Or get her to try the PMR30 which is very light and requires little effort to cock.
Then maybe go to revolver land and see how's he likes that.
Why do people assume that small hands need small guns?
Or better yet why do women want who don’t shoot regularly want complicated auto loaders?
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