Hey all, thanksfor the support and kind words.
Sounds to me like you were attempting to have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.
You say this was your father in law. Just out of curiosity, what does your spouse think about it? I mean both the issue and the argument with the father.
My Wife thought I was respectful, and rational, and agreed with my points as did her Mom.
I really feel bad about it, I should have had a saving face, and said something like whoa we were just talking a minute ago, and it seems like we are off now, your oppinion matters to me and so I'll just end this here.
Armoredman, your boy's face says it all, and I bet you that when he's older he won't remember all the tv shows he watched, but will remember Dad taking him out shooting.
Some arguments aren't worth fighting. However, in your case your father in law might cause issues with your wife if he thinks his grandkids are in danger.
Exactly my concern. We live close, and see them often. I aknowledge that when my kids do something that shows interest in my passion that I tend to be overjoyed. When I ask my kid what she wants for Christmas, and she says a pink rifle, my heart palpitates.
It doesn't mean I'm going to give my four year old a box of ammo, the rifle, and say hey good luck to you.
I'll probably call him tonight to make sure he's ok.
I wish my father had introduced me to shooting.
Not saying your situation is mine, but my dad left when I was 5. Haven't seen him since. Even lives in the same town. I found a few good father figures who were patient with me and taught me.
When I was married, and then had kids, I swore I'd never leave them, and always be a good Dad. I think I've done well, and my family is my life.