camar: I may not have traveled the same road that you mentioned, (which it is unclear if you have travelled it) but I did watch my father-in-law die in my arms, which was no fault of my own, except my efforts at rescue breathing were woefully inept. So I have travelled the same road as you mentioned, only in a different village. And I will gladly talk to anyone who will endure with me, because someone may, one day, have the words of comfort, or encouragement, to dispel most the grief I will carry till I join him in that final day we will all meet. But until that happens I will try to endeavor others to release any demons they may be battling by telling their tail in a friendly atmosphere where they won't be judged by others, and maybe they will release some of the pain they carry. Then again maybe not, but I thought this was an open forum where people could express themselves and be as real as they feel comfortable without judgement, but maybe I expected too much from "The High Road."