Discussion in 'General Gun Discussions' started by Orion8472, Sep 12, 2021.
I've had buyers mail me payment, yet never respond to any email.
Did your auction listing give a deadline for payment?
I had a guy get really mad at me even though I was in daily contact with him and sent the MO out the day after I won the auction. USPS let me down and it took a while to get from the east coast to Iowa. He was having a kitten and getting a bit rude when it wasn't there in a few days. It made it there (he didn't apologize after pretty much calling me a liar) and he could see the post mark on it.
So, it really depends. No feedback and no commo, I would cut them off after a week and move on.
Personally, about 10 business days with no communications is my Point of No Return.
Bad things happen to good people, and some leeway is warranted. Like, if I'd sold something to a person in Baton Rouge or Lake Charles, they would have only gotten power back last week. Now, that's worth some leniency. Or a car wreck that puts them in a hospital. Either of those are like to interrupt communications.
But, the waiting in silence is tough sledding. It's worse if the sold item shipped already.
And we have a tie for best answer!
Having delivered rural mail for a year, and having vets standing at the mail box waiting for a prescription a week late, nope, I'm not mailing anything. I might have to take it that way but I'm not making poor USPS service my standard. I cannot refuse one Rx coming in that way, I keep my ebay etc purchases limited to US only, and Paypal will take your Credit Card - look harder. I only CC my purchases and with that there are protections against not shipping etc that do not exist with a debit or MO - which is the instrument which scammers prefer.
If a transaction isn't complete with a shipping number in 72 hours then somebody is dragging their heels. Won't be in town for a week? Won't buy from them.
At two weeks you went way beyond any sense of fairness or giving benefit of doubt, regardless of the auction site rules. I wouldn't have given the buyer any more than five business days to at least make contact. When I'm a buyer on Gunbroker I send a message to the seller before the end of the same day the auction closes acknowledging my purchase and outlining my intents and plans to pay and take delivery.
In the FWIW category, if I do a buy on a forum or eBay, etc. I typically use USPS money orders. I take a picture of the completed money order along with the tracking number and email it immediately. There is zero ambiguity about payment
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