I'm with you there.I realize after seeing all these ballistic tests that there really isn't much of a difference between calibers these days.
You don't get bonus points for aesthetics, I would personally pay closer attention to crush depth, see if it reaches what you believe to be an adequate minimum, and then consider expansion.They were easily the most consistent and I loved how they looked after expansion.
DT makes some deep penetrating hunting loads but they also have some gel tests showing some excellent self defense loads that are in line with proper penetrating depths. I'm not sure that their .45 loads are really deserving of that sort of hyperbole either.I'd be scared of any of the DT stuff in larger calibers...the 10mm would go right through you and make a big mess... the .45 would just straight up blow a hole in you!