fastbolt
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You shouldn't feel anything in your wrists at all. The elbows should be your only articulation -- cuts down on wear and tear. The rubber grips change the grip frame geometry and that is why they work so well.
When you watch enough folks shoot Magnum revolvers for enough years, and watch how many of them seemingly allow their grip technique to allow torquing stress to be experienced by their wrists (even if they don't realize it's happening), it's not a surprise when older shooters start to complain about their wrists, along with their elbows and shoulders.
It's not unusual for some Magnum SA revolver shooters to claim that allowing their wrists to absorb some of the recoil force (via rotation) makes their heavy recoiling Magnum revolvers more controllable. I learned to keep my wrist locked with my forearm, whether shooting 1 or 2-handed (so I could rapidly thumb cock the hammer with my support hand thumb), although there were some of the heaviest recoiling (sometimes referred to as Ruger-Only) loads that were much easier to shoot if the grip rotated a bit in my hand. That didn't seem to help when shooting a Freedom Arms .454, though, as that factory grip frame just hammered my bare palm after a couple cylinder loads.
I have some video of me shooting a couple of early S&W .500 Magnum revolvers (Demo guns brought to our range), wearing a short sleeved t-shirt. Even with the cushioning grip, in slow motion you can see a wave of shock trmeors running up my arm from my wrist, through my forearm, along my upper arm, disappearing under the t-shirt sleeves, but then ending up in my lower neck (think being visible in the SC muscle).
And shooting the .500's felt much easier on me than the .454 ... or the 360PD, loaded with 125gr Magnum loads.
Then, there's always "Magnum Thumb" after a long afternoon of shooting Magnum wheelies.