Sam1911
Moderator Emeritus
Er, no. The correct response is to eliminate the threat if possible, attempt to avoid it if not, and prepare to counter it if avoidance fails.
Well, that's actually backward.
Avoidance is always your FIRST choice. That's what all of our "situational awareness" talk is about. The only good gunfight is the one you didn't have. And the "best" one you have to be in is still a terrible thing.
If avoidance fails, do what you must to stop the threat.
But, aside from that, I'm not sure where you two are so at odds. Sure, folks should get their carry permit or license (if any is required) just in case. No, no one should die sitting on their hands just because they didn't get that card in time. Yes, they may well expect to face some penalties if caught carrying illegally before that card arrives. Would I tell my wife to carry anyway if some jerk was stalking her and she didn't have her permit (yet) and we didn't have some better solution? Yeah, probably would.
Some states do have expedited carry permitting for folks with a dire and immediate need. I'm going to have to wrack my brain to remember where I saw that, though.