My wife just informed me that one of our neighbors, who's renting his home, is being evicted by the owners so that their son, a convicted child molester, can move into the house. This is the next block over, but that's still too close for comfort. I've got an 8 month old son, and our whole neighborhood's filled with infants, toddlers, etc.
The neighbors we're best friends with have two sons (one 2 yr. old, one 7 months), and the convict is moving in right next to them. They just spent a ton remodelling their entire home, and now they're trying to figure out a way to finance a move if the guy really does move in. Needless to say, they're pretty upset. The guy that's getting evicted just started getting to know all the neighbors, too, and now he's getting the boot.
We've read up on the subject a bit, and it seems there's not too much we can do. Our neighborhood watch leader is trying to schedule a meeting to see if we can protest somehow, maybe take legal action, but it seems like there's really nothing of consequence that is available to us. In fact, there are laws protecting the guy from harassment from unhappy neighbors, so it's not like we can camp out on his lawn and chant, "Hey hey ho ho, child molester's gotta go!"
Anyways, my question is this: Aside from keeping my child home 24/7 (which will probably be unbearable for the poor kid) and away from this guy as much as humanly possible, what else can I do? I was very much looking forward to my kid growing up, visiting, and playing with all the other kids in the neighborhood, but this kind of killed that notion. And all it takes is one slip up, one incident, and the S is really gonna hit the fan.
I'm trying to be rational about it, but the reality of the situation really hasn't even hit me yet, and I'm already upset. I know we're not being fair to the guy--even child molesters need a place to live, right? Until he moves into YOUR neighborhood, however, and you've got a couple of young ones of your own, you probably wont understand. Moving is a last resort (especially with the real estate craze here in Kali), but I guess it's an option. We plunked down a bit of cash making our home nice and cozy, and my wife and I got married in the gazebo in our back yard. IOW, it's far, far easier to say, "Just move!" than to actually do it.
So, anyone with any kind of experience in this matter? How did you handle it? What kinds of extra precautions did you take? Are there any other avenues we can pursue to get this guy out of our neighborhood? Any advice would be greatly appreciated and passed along during the neighborhood meeting.
Man, there goes the neighborhood.
The neighbors we're best friends with have two sons (one 2 yr. old, one 7 months), and the convict is moving in right next to them. They just spent a ton remodelling their entire home, and now they're trying to figure out a way to finance a move if the guy really does move in. Needless to say, they're pretty upset. The guy that's getting evicted just started getting to know all the neighbors, too, and now he's getting the boot.
We've read up on the subject a bit, and it seems there's not too much we can do. Our neighborhood watch leader is trying to schedule a meeting to see if we can protest somehow, maybe take legal action, but it seems like there's really nothing of consequence that is available to us. In fact, there are laws protecting the guy from harassment from unhappy neighbors, so it's not like we can camp out on his lawn and chant, "Hey hey ho ho, child molester's gotta go!"
Anyways, my question is this: Aside from keeping my child home 24/7 (which will probably be unbearable for the poor kid) and away from this guy as much as humanly possible, what else can I do? I was very much looking forward to my kid growing up, visiting, and playing with all the other kids in the neighborhood, but this kind of killed that notion. And all it takes is one slip up, one incident, and the S is really gonna hit the fan.
I'm trying to be rational about it, but the reality of the situation really hasn't even hit me yet, and I'm already upset. I know we're not being fair to the guy--even child molesters need a place to live, right? Until he moves into YOUR neighborhood, however, and you've got a couple of young ones of your own, you probably wont understand. Moving is a last resort (especially with the real estate craze here in Kali), but I guess it's an option. We plunked down a bit of cash making our home nice and cozy, and my wife and I got married in the gazebo in our back yard. IOW, it's far, far easier to say, "Just move!" than to actually do it.
So, anyone with any kind of experience in this matter? How did you handle it? What kinds of extra precautions did you take? Are there any other avenues we can pursue to get this guy out of our neighborhood? Any advice would be greatly appreciated and passed along during the neighborhood meeting.
Man, there goes the neighborhood.