First time I showed up for church security several months ago he walked up gave me a hug (huggy church) and dropped his hand down on my gun. I knocked his hand away; stepped back and told him very clearly “Do not ever do that again.” Well, Sunday he did it again but this time he waited till I was shaking his hand and lifted my shirt with his left hand. I jerked my hand back and in no uncertain terms told him “Do not ever put your hands on me like that again.” This time I think I got his attention because he got defensive and told me I was “too uptight.” This morning I wrote a 7 paragraph letter to the head of church security explaining exactly what happened, reminding him that this is the second time this has occurred and asking him to set the guy straight. I also made it explicitly clear that as far as I was concerned the only acceptable resolution to the situation was the guy respects my space and does not do that again. I’m waiting for a response. My ego is a little bruised because IMO the guy disrespected me but he’s an idiot, not a threat and I just can’t justify punching him in the nose because I know he isn’t actually trying to gain possession of my hand gun. Going forward I intend to avoid the guy like the plague and I intend to tell him straight up to BTFO if he ever tries to get in my bubble again. Since he is a church employee I really hope the church makes his error crystal clear but I need some non violent way to brake check this guy if he ever gets stupid like that again. PS This seems like an ST&T tactic to me but if it's not move it.