I hold my guns and my teacups without prominent "pinky" action!
And, I do like tea!
My favorite brands are Twining's and Taylor's of Harrogate, in north Yorkshire. The first is widely sold in the US. The second, I get at Central Market stores in Texas, sort of gourmet grocery stores.
Try their sites. Twining's, in particular, has wonderful detail, including the history of the tea trade. (That firm has been around in London since 1706!)
www.twinings.com
www.yorkshiretea.co.uk
Hint: I find Twining's regular Darjeeling blend a little ephemeral, sort of the Coors of tea, and prefer the Darjeelings from Taylor's or Bigelow's, which is a US company. Their blenders go for a fuller flavor.
I suspect that my favorite tea of all is Twining's Ceylon Breakfast, or the estate-specific Ceylon teas from Taylor's, which aren't in bags; you have to use the loose leaves and strain. (Taylor's regular Ceylon blend is offered in bags.) But I also love a good Assam tea, which you can get from Twining's as Irish Breakfast. Taylor's just labels their's as region-specific: Assam. (Although both Assam and Darjeeling are in NE India, the teas are quite different.)
Taylor's better teas are named after the region of production, but their house blend, Yorkshire Gold, is also superb. So is their English Breakfast, which seems to have more Ceylon teas in the blend than does the equivalent from Twining's, which has a little "maltier" flavor.
My son stopped off in London on his way home from Iraq last year, and bought me a box of No. 14 English Breakfast at Harrod's, the famed dept. store. It reminded me a lot of Taylor's English Breakfast.
There's nothing wrong or effeminate about drinking tea. Probably every man who ever won the Victoria Cross drank tea! As did Jim Corbett, John Hunter, and other famous hunters of dangerous game in Africa and India.
Sometimes, I use milk, sometimes not. Good tea is delicious. Forget the bland stuff from Lipton, and try the above. I probably should have said more about Bigelow's, which offers good blends, although in general, I prefer the British brands.
Finally, Central Market is also selling a new American (Texan!) brand, The Original Ceylon Tea Company. Their English Breakfast Tea is as good as what the Brits blend!
www.ceylon-tea.com As the name infers, they use all Ceylon teas.
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