Okay let me clarify my original statement cause either I badly worded it for its being misinterpreted. I said I wasn't bothered by my gun flashing from some extreme movement, not that I'm okay with random flashing. Your gun is going to show at some point in time, its unavoidable. I'm not going to worry about it and check my shirt every 5 seconds. I do, however, try to keep it from showing by choosing an appropriate outfit.
I have never, and will never support random/intentional flashing in public. Lets use some common sense. An unintentional "flash" has happened to anyone if you have kids, don't walk like a zombie, and getting in or out of a car. Depending on where you're at though, a flash is just inexcusable. Like work, fancy occasions, etc. Never carried at work, don't really plan to.
Deep concealment, as in hard to get too, is fine if you choose, but its not for me.
Carter I am curious since my state doesnt allow open carry(go figure that in texas) when you do wear openly do you get weird stares or do people get nervous? I like the wearing black but I would be dead of heat stroke down here before I could use my weapon.
When I open carry its not with my gun just hanging out blatantly visible. I generally wear a baggy shirt so I can make my gun disappear if need be, and I only open carry when I know I'm not going to be going to certain places (such as a town center, malls, etc). I've never gotten stares or been asked to leave. Like others have said earlier in the thread, no one really seems to notice. People are oblivious. I still try to make it less eye catching. My holster is black, my gun is black, my shirt is usually black. It kind of disappears to most people. I used to be very paranoid about carrying. I'd check all the time to make sure my gun wasn't showing and wouldn't dare open carry. But after a few months you start to realize no one is going to look away from their cell phone or some hotty walking by to look at you.
As far as not wearing black cause of the heat, there are other options. Any color helps more than a plain white shirt. White shirts, especially t-shirts, tend to have some type of see through effect. My tattoos on my upper arm show through t-shirts and they're relatively small. A gun will definitely show through.
If your state doesn't allow concealed carry I could understand choosing a more deep concealment. My state allows open carry so its not something I'm overly concerned about (from a legal stand point), but still prefer and attempt to keep my gun concealed. When I go to South Carolina (doesn't allow open carry) it stays hidden and will not be seen. Beach winds don't help though!
As far as a at work, if your business doesn't allow it I wouldn't suggest it. Like Tirod has said, business are usually unforgiving.