Moved my mom into A fourplex style senior housing neighborhood today.
She has a Colt Trooper .357Mag that she has kept around to feel secure over the years. She just moved into a fourplex unit ( one of twenty on site) today, and I am thinking it is time to ask her to pass her piece on to me for good.
Her health is not good, she cannot shoot it or handle it safely anymore. The complex is the safest area to live in this town. Due to her physical and mental state, her neighbors were safer yesterday than they are today. Her new neighbors, that is.
This really is the time for her to pass it onto me. She has a history of chasing off "prowlers", and frankly her new neighbors are at some small risk. Still, how do you tell someone you care for that they are no longer fit enough to be trusted with a weapon, their most effective means of self protection?
That is what it will come to. I will have to look her in the eye and tell her that she is incompetant. Too old and crazy to own a firearm, and may I have it for my collection, please. You're plenty safe here.
I discussed the move with her yesterday, her revolver quite specifically. Asked her to have it unloaded and in a case, ready to give it to me before we started moving, as there would be kids and other unaware indiviuals helping. I knew it was loaded right then, because there had been an incident that upset her the night before. I would transport it and keep it secure till she was unpacked. When I got to her house and we were starting, I inquired about it. She did not know where it was, but it was in one of those boxes. :banghead:
We had already loaded it on the truck at that point.
Not that any of us knew, till we were unpacking boxes.
She can't drive, but refuses to sell her vehicle, which is costing her money she does not have. It is a freedom/independence issue, which I certainly understand. Her pistol falls into the same catagory. I understand that too.
Growing Elderly sucks. How do I preserve her dignity while protecting her neighbors?
She has a Colt Trooper .357Mag that she has kept around to feel secure over the years. She just moved into a fourplex unit ( one of twenty on site) today, and I am thinking it is time to ask her to pass her piece on to me for good.
Her health is not good, she cannot shoot it or handle it safely anymore. The complex is the safest area to live in this town. Due to her physical and mental state, her neighbors were safer yesterday than they are today. Her new neighbors, that is.
This really is the time for her to pass it onto me. She has a history of chasing off "prowlers", and frankly her new neighbors are at some small risk. Still, how do you tell someone you care for that they are no longer fit enough to be trusted with a weapon, their most effective means of self protection?
That is what it will come to. I will have to look her in the eye and tell her that she is incompetant. Too old and crazy to own a firearm, and may I have it for my collection, please. You're plenty safe here.
I discussed the move with her yesterday, her revolver quite specifically. Asked her to have it unloaded and in a case, ready to give it to me before we started moving, as there would be kids and other unaware indiviuals helping. I knew it was loaded right then, because there had been an incident that upset her the night before. I would transport it and keep it secure till she was unpacked. When I got to her house and we were starting, I inquired about it. She did not know where it was, but it was in one of those boxes. :banghead:
We had already loaded it on the truck at that point.
Not that any of us knew, till we were unpacking boxes.
She can't drive, but refuses to sell her vehicle, which is costing her money she does not have. It is a freedom/independence issue, which I certainly understand. Her pistol falls into the same catagory. I understand that too.
Growing Elderly sucks. How do I preserve her dignity while protecting her neighbors?