So as the title says, are my hands just too large or is there an optimal grip for a j frame? My instinctual grip is the thumbs forward grip for autos, and clearly this isn’t a good grip for a j frame, so I reversed to the classic tucked thumb type grip to keep them away from the front of the cylinder. When doing this, the cylinder latch just eats away at my thumb knuckle with every shot. I wear an xxl glove, but generally don’t have problems with short autos, although I have to be careful with the lcp as my thumbs will go past the muzzle with my standard grip. Any advice?