I went to my local gunshop looking to spend up to $1000 on a metal 9mm for concealed carry. I want metal because with an old wrist injury I'm sensitive to recoil and think that a metal pistol would have less recoil and muzzle flip. I don't think I would trust anything less than 9mm so that's the reason for that qualification. And for concealed carry, I want something as small as can be given my other qualifications. So the saleman recommended a Kahr K9 or a Springfield EMP. I like the feel of both and am up in the air. Reliability is important too and I have heard mixed things about the EMP in that regard. A friend recommended a Para Carry 9. Anyone have any helpful suggestions? Thank you.