Tell her yes im a coward. I am afraid to fight one or more poeple who I know for a fact can beat the crap out of me.
I'm a proud coward. But I've run into many, many antis--esp. from overseas--who regard it as a man's duty to get in punchups over women, insults or just because they're drunk out of their minds. They dislike firearms because they view them as "cheating" or "cowardly." The same idiots will wax poetic about katanas, though. They're like children on a playground.
I've been arguing with these people since the grand old days of the Michael Moore Message Board. I don't have much use for arguing statistics or engaging in some cost vs. benefits analysis. As others pointed out, these guys will ALWAYS view the cost of firearms as outweighing the benefits. And indeed most of them come from states and nations where the majority does feel that civilian owned firearms have no useful place in the modern world. The policy arguments throwing statistics and cost/benefit analyses back and forth have already taken place where they are, and the firearms lost.
These days my arguments tend to run to the core of the matter, which has nothing to do with the policy debate. We're talkign about the RIGHT to keep and bear arms, not about the merits of owning firearms. It's a natural right, and among other things it means that all the statistics and utilitarian analysis are meaningless. It doesn't even have to do with wether they think firearms are good or bad. The core question is whether the state has the right to strip you of deadly weapons whenever it feels the desire to do so. To strip you of the means to defend yourself beyond a playground punch-up level, as the British government has been doing for decades now.
In a thousand arguments on dozens of boards, I've found it comes down to the question of how you view the individual's relationship with the state. It actually has very little to do with firearms. The question is whether you are SUBJECTS of the state, beholden to the state for your day-to-day existence, or CITIZENS who operate within a state but who still retain core rights against state intereference. You will find that the antis reject the notion of natural rights, and that they view rights as transitory products of temporary agreements among elected representatives. The state giveth, the state taketh away. From that point of view, it makes perfect sense that the majority of representatives can engage in a cost-benefit analysis and decide to round up all the firearms.