One of my kids got killed this week.

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http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,334790,00.html
Jamiel Andre Shaw, 17, was shot multiple times on a sidewalk a few yards from his home after he didn't respond when two men pulled up in a car and asked him, "Where you from?" — code for which gang did he belong to, police said. He was not a gang member.

Authorities are calling the shooting a random, unprovoked gang attack.

Shaw, a standout running back at Los Angeles High School and the Southern League's most valuable player last season, was shot about 8:40 p.m. Sunday in the Crenshaw area. He died later at a local hospital.

Known to his friends as "Jazz," Shaw was heading places, said his father, Jamiel Shaw Sr.

"He was going to make something out of himself," Jamiel Sr. told MyFOXLA.com. "All he had to do was get out of high school."

(more to article, in link .... ETA-Kev)

Often on this board and others, I see a disturbing mentality, one supported regrettably by both our own fears and the all too willing accomodation of "the gun community". It is in posts that complain about "every kid who gets killed just happens to be an honor student", posts that scoff at reports that "the boy was not a gang member", and members who loudly proclaim that the entire inner city ought to be purged in a hail of righteous brimstone, because it is nothing but a cesspool of criminality and rot.

Jamiel was one of my kids, one of my students. He was not a straight A student. He could've benefitted from reading a bit more. But he was a good kid, one who made use of his intelligence and worked hard at what he was good at -football - in an environment where both temptations and obstacles abound.

According to his closest friends, Jamiel was walking home March 1st while talking to his girlfriend on his cell phone. A car suddenly pulled alongside, and two hispanics got out. They asked him, while he was still on the phone: "Where are you from?"

Jamiel has always been a rather quiet and reserved guy. His teachers appreciated his tendency to remain calm in the classroom, despite the antics of other students. Perhaps this may be why he did not answer immediately. Whatever the reason, one of the two gangsters - rumored to be from 18th Street - then shot him in the arm, and then the head. They left him on the sidewalk and took off in their car.

Jamiel was so close to home that his father was able to hear the shots, and ran outside in time to hold his son as he died.

Jamiel was black.
He lived in the inner city.
He was not a gang member.
He was not a criminal.
His parents are good people. His mother had be released from duty in Iraq - to bury her son.
Jamiel was a good kid.

So the next time you read a report about yet another black, hispanic, or whatever kid shot... give the kid the benefit of doubt. Don't let the news, hollywood, and our own zealousness toward the RKBA demonize the other and encourage us to indentify ourselves apart from our fellow man.

That's all.
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Where to begin? Just heartbreaking. Prayers sent for his friends, relatives, parents and you. I cannot imagine what this must be like for his mother.

Best,
Jeff
 
I am truly sorry to hear about your student. I know how they can become your "kids". My thoughts will be with you, as well as with Jamiel's family.
 
It could have been anyone or any race, color, or background. I think most will still agree with the old saying of "guns don't kill people, people kill people". I can see that you are not anti-gun, but I thought that was the purpose at first.
It is sad how some people have little or no value for life, no matter who's life it is. If it wasn't guns, it would have been knives. Respect for life begins at home, and young people that have little or no guidance from home grow up with "gaps" that are going to be filled by something or someone. Whether it is TV or peers or parents, someone is going to instill those values in the young person. Those murderers obviously didn't get their values instilled from the right place and this young man unfortunately paid for it. It could have been anyone. I hope these guys are caught and get what they deserve.
 
I am so sorry to read about this Silverlance-I am praying for you & this young mans family
 
So the next time you read a report about yet another black, hispanic, or whatever kid shot... give the kid the benefit of doubt. Don't let the news, hollywood, and our own zealousness toward the RKBA demonize the other and encourage us to indentify ourselves apart from our fellow man.
Point taken, and I am genuinely sorry for the loss.....
 
I'm sorry to hear about your student. Just because a kid is black and lives in the inner city doesn't mean he is a gang member or involved in things he shouldn't be.

Please give my condolences to his family. They didn't deserve this.
 
My heart goes out to you and the kid's family and friends. It sounds like he had his head on straight, an unfortunately rare thing for any kid these days. It also sounds like he had a family that guided him down the right path.

I find it incredibly unjust that someone with so many things going for them can be taken down by those who either declined, or never had the same opportunities. Am I the only one who thinks the gang problem in America is taking more lives than the war? Whether they end up in jail or dead, the gangs just keep going. Killing those they hate, killing those who don't want to be involved in their petty disputes, killing those who just want to make something of themselves.... It's sickening. And then there are those who think the problem is the weapon, not the mind.

If there's a single thing holding the minorities in this country back, it's not racism by whites. It's the idea that the gang is a suitable replacement for a family.
 
When I was a kid we learned about "Bleeding Kansas" in history classes. That fighting killed just a fraction of those who have died in gang violence over the last couple decades, I wonder if one day kids will learn about us and shake their heads.
 
I understand where you're coming from.I was a 4H leader for 6 years and I still 12 years later think of them as 'my kids" and would go out of my way to help them.My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
I have lost more students than I care to recall, well over 12! I lost 5 in a single school year. It never becomes any less painful than what was the first one.

I'll keep you, and his family in my prayers.

Doc2005
 
I saw this young man's father weeping on my television yesterday. My heart sank a little. It sinks even more now. Your points are well taken Silverlance.

Life is precious.
 
So sad. We had a similar incident happen over in Winston-salem a few years back.

He was working security on the midnight shift at a new Super K-Mart
and going to Forsyth Tech during the day, enrolled in LE Technology. His parents told the reporters that, all his life...all he wanted to do was be a cop.

He was within 6 months of completing the courses, when, one night after his shift had just started, he saw a guy steal a pair of 25-dollar sneakers. He followed him out the door, in an attempt to get him to stop...or just drop the shoes and run, according to what witnesses reported that he said to him...but the guy turned and shot him...over a pair of sneakers.

Here was a decent young black man, determined to keep his life on a straight path and contribute something to the community...and he died over nothing. What a waste.

Condolences to Jamiel's family.
 
high school teachers

My wife is a high school teacher and I know exactly what you mean when you say "one of my kids". It's amazing the bond we develop with some of the students. We've seen a few of "our kids" lives end too soon and unexpectedly and many of them make mistakes they will regret the rest of their lives. A lot of them grow up to be fine young men and women too.

Our hearts and prayers go out to you and this young man's family.
 
Loads of athletic talent and a thoroughly decent individual this is truly tragic, RIP Bro.
 
Crap and other worse words.

I'll note that I only make the 'honor student' comments when the person in question got whacked while doing something stupid - such as robbing a bank or convenience store.

We need to take out the gangs, but that's easier said than done.

I'm sorry for the loss. One more good person dragged down before his time, one who could have made his own small impact on reducing the crime rate. I can't really say more, not having known him.
 
silverlance,

This is a tragic story. It is sad that a young man who wanted to live his life square with the world was cut down before he was given the chance. But it is sad when gang violence touches anyone innocent, independent of race or ethnicity. Gang violence is spreading into the suburbs and small towns across America and altering the lives of many innocent people on a daily basis. Sad!
 
Truly a tragedy. A life cut short for no reason except hatred by people with no conscience.

My prayers go out to the family and those who loved him.

There is no hurt like the loss of a child. You are not prepared for it as it is not supposed to work like that. It comes as an unbelievable shock. There will always remain an empty space in their hearts.

What a waste of the life of a young man who might have been a lot of things and a benefit to society.

With sympathy,
Jerry
 
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