I'm very surprised that only one of the responses so far mentioned what I consider to be the
only important reason to go with wood - and it took seven responses before someone brought it up! Guitargod1985 nailed it:
I've found that wood grips are better if you are using the gun for concealed carry. Wood is easier to slide off clothing, whereas rubber gets stuck on clothing.
Considering that the OP correctly pointed out the below,
But ya gotta practice, and I subscribe to the notion that whatever grip you use for carry should be used for practice. And with the J you should practice a lot.
well, there you go. Most methods of concealed carry all but require wood grips if clothing is not to hang up at inopportune times, so that translates into practicing with those same wood grips on the gun. Even with +P loads in the AirLites, I find Eagles and Craig Spegels to be only moderately uncomfortable (the Eagles somewhat moreso), certainly not punishing. Hogue Bantams (the wood versions) are downright comfy because they are a lot thicker - but also less concealable, of course.
But, for any carry method that doesn't rely upon gravity to keep the covering garment over the gun, by all means, go with rubber grips. Purely from a shooting perspective, they are FAR more comfortable than wood due to the resiliency of the rubber. No reason not to give yourself every advantage possible, and if you can make practice that much easier, you'll shoot more often and gain proficiency.
Brentfoto said:
I created this poll due to some frustration in finding rubber grips that are comfortable with +P AND conceal well...
BTW, I hereby offer my Hogue Bantam grips for the J-frame for sale.
I found this interesting. With the Airweights and AirLites, as I said above, +P recoil with wood boot grips is mildly unpleasant but not unbearable. That's with wood, which is far harsher than absorptive rubber; with rubber boot grips such as the (rubber) Hogue Bantams and Uncle Mike's rubber boot grip, which is a copy of Craig Spegel's wood grips, I should think you'd be approaching the "very tolerable" range, if not downright comfort.
Of course, individuals vary, so I'm not sure exactly what your Holy Grail is when you said you wanted rubber grips that were "comfortable" with +P and also concealed well. If you hadn't mentioned dissatisfaction with the Hogues, they would have been one of only two grips that I would recommend. Having eliminated those from the equation, however, my only remaining suggestion is the Uncle Mike's rubber boot grip that I mentioned above. They are standard equipment on the Airweight revolvers and are a tad larger than the rubber Bantams front-to-back; the palm swell might be about the same overall, though the contours are rather different than the Hogues. Ergonomically, I prefer the Spegel/Uncle Mike's shape.
There are, of course, many more rubber grip options that can make the J-frame - any J-frame, even the Airlites - a pussycat to shoot, but these hand-filling grips are going to be so big that you will neutralize any concealability advantage that you've gained by choosing so small a revolver.