bikerdoc
Moderator In Memoriam
Couple of points to reinforce what has been said above:
A hardened layered home defense is a must
The car in the driveway thing works. We are fortunate to have a third car.
I am the noisy neighbor. Being retired I am rarely out of the house more the 5 hours.
The local PD dispatchers know I am a retired LEO and my calls have credibility.
Never heard the flag thing was deterrent but I have one.
I have been told, by the mailman and the UPS guy, the inside Shepard and the outside Rottweiler, have a rep of being unfriendly.
Repairmen- On the few occasions I can't fix it myself, repairmen are vetted by getting their name and a cell phone picture.
Supposed religious people, salesmen, and people asking for people get the same treatment.
An untouched subject is;
What is your neighborhood rep? How do the local kids or punks perceive you? Are you perceived to be more trouble than it is worth? Sometime being known as the cranky, ill tempered, old man is not a bad thing. Other side of that coin is know your neighbors. Reach out. Couple of summers ago I am in the driveway when an older woman walked by. It was hot, Southern hot. Chit chat revealed her A/C unit had quit. She had grandson that was a troubled youth, on the wrong path, living with her.
I told her I had an old extra window unit she could have. Just send the the grandson over to lift it into the truck and I would drive it over and he could put it in.
Annoyed that he had to do work he had an attitude. We talked and I roughly told him he had two choices, end up dead or in jail or start building a real life. His choice, I didn't really care but if he wanted help come see me. Couple months latter I took him to the recruiter and he now is crewman on an AWACS and is doing well.
A hardened layered home defense is a must
The car in the driveway thing works. We are fortunate to have a third car.
I am the noisy neighbor. Being retired I am rarely out of the house more the 5 hours.
The local PD dispatchers know I am a retired LEO and my calls have credibility.
Never heard the flag thing was deterrent but I have one.
I have been told, by the mailman and the UPS guy, the inside Shepard and the outside Rottweiler, have a rep of being unfriendly.
Repairmen- On the few occasions I can't fix it myself, repairmen are vetted by getting their name and a cell phone picture.
Supposed religious people, salesmen, and people asking for people get the same treatment.
An untouched subject is;
What is your neighborhood rep? How do the local kids or punks perceive you? Are you perceived to be more trouble than it is worth? Sometime being known as the cranky, ill tempered, old man is not a bad thing. Other side of that coin is know your neighbors. Reach out. Couple of summers ago I am in the driveway when an older woman walked by. It was hot, Southern hot. Chit chat revealed her A/C unit had quit. She had grandson that was a troubled youth, on the wrong path, living with her.
I told her I had an old extra window unit she could have. Just send the the grandson over to lift it into the truck and I would drive it over and he could put it in.
Annoyed that he had to do work he had an attitude. We talked and I roughly told him he had two choices, end up dead or in jail or start building a real life. His choice, I didn't really care but if he wanted help come see me. Couple months latter I took him to the recruiter and he now is crewman on an AWACS and is doing well.