Treo
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This is a Spin off of Kilted Claymore's thread.
We're trained our whole life to be polite to the people arround us, I would be willing to bet that if I walked up to every person that I meet tomorrow & stuck out my hand 90% of them would shake my hand. ( IOW give me control of their dominate hand).
My question is where do you draw the line?
To me, Kilted's scenario was pretty clear, he made the first aggresive move then moved to intercept. I'd would've stopped in the middle of the street an told him to back off, W/ my hand on my gun.
Which of course begs the question "Did I just escalate the situation to mutual combat?"
But what if it's not so clear cut? What if its just a wino on the street asking for your spare change, how close does he get before you back him off? What if it's a clean cut young man? Or a really cute woman?
What do you say ? Just how assertive is your tone?
Where is the line between asserting your boundaries and ( as I said earlier ) being aggressive to the point of mutual combat ( Which is a Co. legal term for "The fight was just as much your fault as his" so SD laws don't apply)
We're trained our whole life to be polite to the people arround us, I would be willing to bet that if I walked up to every person that I meet tomorrow & stuck out my hand 90% of them would shake my hand. ( IOW give me control of their dominate hand).
My question is where do you draw the line?
To me, Kilted's scenario was pretty clear, he made the first aggresive move then moved to intercept. I'd would've stopped in the middle of the street an told him to back off, W/ my hand on my gun.
Which of course begs the question "Did I just escalate the situation to mutual combat?"
But what if it's not so clear cut? What if its just a wino on the street asking for your spare change, how close does he get before you back him off? What if it's a clean cut young man? Or a really cute woman?
What do you say ? Just how assertive is your tone?
Where is the line between asserting your boundaries and ( as I said earlier ) being aggressive to the point of mutual combat ( Which is a Co. legal term for "The fight was just as much your fault as his" so SD laws don't apply)