OK. Narrowing down the problems here. I went and shot PPC last night. After tightening the spring screw in the grip things were much better. Nearly all my bullets shot OK. Nearly! I had my buddy load up 60 rounds using 230 gr bullets, clays powder and Winchester primers and every one of those worked perfect. Not any problems, all powder burned, etc. They shot really well.
So he and I went home and took my powder charge apart on my press and it had a lot of "gunk" in it. Looked like old powder, grease, etc. caked on the inside of the tube running from the powder hopper to the nozzle. We cleaned everything out. Also we removed the lock out die and put a bullet seating die in its place and put the crimp die on the next station. That solved my problem with crushing cases and damaging bullets. I made up about 24 rounds to take over to my range tonight after doing all this to test those. If this doesn't fix it, I am going to quit shooting and take up a different hobby. Maybe electric trains or something!