Did you ever countersue, slander, anything like that?
Clearly you do not understand the likely result in a court of law.
It would be her word against his, and even if it was determined he was in the right, what she "felt" at the time is not wrong, it is what she felt.
Proving that it was not what she "felt" but was instead vindictive in court would be a very difficult task. Just like her proving it was more would also be difficult.
What a countersuit would accomplish is simply employing attorneys on both sides, costing both many thousands more in attorney fees.
Now if he makes more money than her, that could actualy be more harmful to her, resulting in her losing quantities of money more necessary to her than to him. He could try to be as bad as she was by using the system.
So the person who has more money to feed to the courts can "win" in that way, but to "win", both have to lose more.
Attorneys are likely to encourage additional lawsuits, because that is the product they sell: thier time in representation. The more litigation, the more they win.
The court is a system, that system employs many thousands of people in a given area. It is like a Casino in that for every big "winner" (which really just means someone else lost bigger than the winner won) you hear about and gets highlighted in media, many thousands pump money into it with little or no return and are lucky to break even.
Anyone that thinks they will "win" by using the system on a regular basis has not seen the system in action.
Suing someone over something so difficult to reliably prove in court would just cost money, and be very unlikely to result in any charges or financial gain.
In fact to gain something she has to have something valuable to take, that after court fees still equates to more than was given to the attorneys in taking it to court.
So in both criminal and civil court it would not be very beneficial.
The system feeds on such people who bitterly use it to be vindictive to eachother. It grows fat in employment and assessed fees, fines, and both people usualy lose.
It is like those bitter divorces where in the end, after all the lawyer fees are added up on both sides, a significant portion of the assets they were dividing up are simply gone. Gone into the pockets of the system to never be seen by either of them.
Yet many people continue to do it on a regular basis. So consumed by hatred for the person they supposedly "loved" that they will destroy eachother.
Lautenberg just provided an additional way to do it.
Arguably Lautenberg puts women in even more danger, because a man actualy intent on harming an ex could use it to insure the woman was legaly disarmed prior to harming her. Since a woman is worse off if both are legaly disarmed, it benefits the stronger man even if (big if) both really are disarmed of firearms.
The ex could defend herself against a man with a gun, using a gun herself. She is at a much greater disadvantage if she has no firearm and he comes along with a blunt or edged weapon, or some other tool to use violently.