fastbolt
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Yes, but ...You are absolutely correct. And as I like to remind folks, in a gun fight you don’t get to pick perfect parameters or circumstances, either. You get the fight you get.
The common word in the terms fist fight, knife fight, gun fight is ... fight. That may mean an unexpected, rapidly evolving, dynamic and chaotic encounter. That being the case, there may not be time to stop and scan through that mental list of reactions and techniques. Instead, it might be better for it to be the result of unconscious competence in reaction and technique. That requires a lot of work to put down those skills and techniques. Sadly, probably not the sort of thing that is going to happen after a 1 day class, or even a weekend seminar experience.
The person who flails their arms and fists around in some chaotic fight may not find their flailing to be as effective (except maybe by happenstance) as the guy who has trained and practiced to strike at specific anatomical targets, and do so when things are coming fast and fuzzy.
Now, while luck can always come along and play a part, luck is fickle and not to be relied upon.
Of course, a little knowledge (both book and experiential) is a good thing, but then there's being able to access the actual gear, and have the strength and endurance to utilize it. Carrying a bit of gear/kit as a talisman may sooth the mind, but what if the world throws something our way there the rubber meets the road?
Don't claim to have the answers, let alone be anybody's idea of anything approaching an expert, but I've seen and experienced enough in my life to have recognized there are some sticky and uncomfortable questions that persist.
When someone once threatened me with a broken beer bottle, outside in the parking lot of a bar, it seemed a bit contrived, but my reaction prevented the meathead from carrying out his drunken threats ... and the 2 women with him stepped in front of him and asked me not to hurt him. (Huh? Hell, I wasn't the one with a jagged beer bottle in my hand.) He had enough sense in his drunken condition to let them defuse the situation and disarm him.
The first time someone told me they were going to gut me, and then seriously tried to put a large fixed blade knife in me? It left an impression in my thinking. Fortunately for me, by that time I'd had a little more than 10 years of some martial arts training behind me, and was able to make him miss. The next time someone pointed a fixed blade knife at me, I was a working cop. There was just enough distance (and a bed) between us, that he was able to see the error of his ways and changed his mind. He didn't want to be shot, and apparently believed he was a moment away from it. Happy ending.