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This, and retry it.
Hammer should be hard, file should cut it. You don't need much. Question is if you will cut thru a hard layer into softer metal under it (case or surface hardening) or not. If you do, and you use it a lot, it'll start wearing the surface. You can always reharden it at home with a torch and a few tricks that we can get into if required. If you only take off what you need and are sensitive to machinery as you use it (guns are just machines) it'll probably be just fine after you file it a little and reassemble.
Now with all that said... these things are all CNC made and real dimensional flaws are very rare. It's "possible" that there's a burr someplace that simply preventing the trigger from moving up where it belongs. I'd start out by minutely inspecting it all, and smoothing off burrs that you find (drag a bit of your ladies old panty-hose over it and they will catch on burrs), cleaning it all perfectly with a spray of Brake-Kleen, lubricating it properly, and reassembly for trial before I took a file to anything. Check the frame too.
Mykeal, thanks for the pointer to the stickies. Too close to home, like me never visiting the statue of liberty in 45 years of living ten miles from it.
Willie
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