But I cannot thing of one, singe individual in the history of this board or the Firing Line who came to the website hating guns and who's mind you opened simply by explaining why guns are good or why the 2nd Amendment is not obsolete just because we don't use muskets anymore.
Oh really?
I came to TFL hating guns. It all started over at the Rosie O'Donnell boards (don't slam me, this was in the PAST
) after Tom Sellek was on her show. Being Rosie fans, 99% of us there were anti-gun. One day a bunch of pro-gunners raided the board (and I am SO thankful that they did!) and we got into some heated debates. There were a few gun owners that actually answered questions, stated facts, and didn't start a flame war with me. Those people I listened to and learned the most. The ones slamming us, just made everything worse.
Eventually they invited me to TFL. When I first posted on 'their' turf, I automatically assumed I'd be caught in the middle of a flame fest, but it was quite the opposite. Everyone was really nice, they answered my stupid questions and showed me a lot of facts. Rich Lucibella welcomed me to his forum and really made me feel comfortable there. Rosie's side couldn't provide any facts, it was all hear say. So obviously things started making more and more sense to me, and I was at the point where I was 'sitting on the fence'. Several months later, JeffOTMG took me shooting and to the Tulsa Gun Show. That did it for me, I became a gun nut within 24 hours.
I've been a gun owner for three years now, would love to own many many more, but $$ is tight. I am an NRA member, SAS member, LEAA, and a SAF member. I am one of three admins over at FFF. The other female admin, Ramangel, came from the Rosie Boards too. I try to talk to as many anti's as I can when I see them posting around different forums. I can relate to them because I was in the same spot as they are. I always encourage them to go shooting with an experienced shooter before they debate more. If they do end up going shooting, the debate is normally over.
I do agree, that sometimes people post on forums without any intent on learning anything. They ask questions just to start up a long thread and usually never make more than 1 or 2 posts. People like that won't ever be converted because they don't have an open mind. You have to be willing to listen to the other side when debating. You can usually tell if someone is going to stick around or just leave because they will have a lot to say. If they ask a few questions, then no replies to the comments, they are trolls.
Debating is good up to a point, but the real kicker is taking that person to shoot. The anti's don't want to read long, dragged out, boring threads with a complete lesson in history. Listen to what they are saying, get to the point, show some facts, and more so get them to go shooting! Speaking to them in a friendly, intelligent way is showing them that not all gun owners are crazed out gang bangers. Always take the "high road".
Thanks for the kind words Don.
Not much online time but I always peek in when I can. You and the family need to come up during the summer for some shooting and Quizmo's.