RexKwonDo,
Get a empty long gun box and wrap and present this.
Also inside, or with the card, enclose a note, money, gift cert, whatever.
Let her pick out the gun.
I have been suggesting and doing this forever, for both ladies and gents, and kids.
She really needs to get with some seasoned shooters, ladies preferably, and shoot a variety of shotguns.
Seasoned shooters can assist with gun fit, and ladies understand ladies are built different and gun fitting may include the contour of toe, heel and inside of butt-stock/recoil pad.
Not that some guys like me don't do this with ladies.
Now "If" she were to get with some ladies, and it was determined a particular gun, fit her, or there was a good used one she went nuts over that fit her, she shot, and all agreed this gun would be best for her...
This is where you and the gals flat lie and tell the wife that gun is sold.
Get this gun Disguised (Vacuum cleaner box really pisses off a lady being unwrapped ) and Surprise the hell out of her.
I am that good at all this.
Here is the deal, folks get a gun, and it may not be the one that is best for them.
They "try" this gift, still they really wanted to be listened to on what they wanted, or what they tried, or really want to try before they choose.
They do not want to hurt feelings by saying this gun is not liked, does not fit, or whatever.
So...they lose interest, and maybe "say" they lost interest in Skeet (whatever use) and don't get involved.
Ladies want to be listened too, just like guys and kids do.
It means a LOT when someone pays attention to what someone says, or hints, or others share how they want something.
Empty box, wrapped, takes care of the "unwrapping a gift" part.
Next is letting her get what she wants by actually trying a variety.
This means a whole LOT, and trust me, I have been doing this...heck my Mentors did this when I was a brat.
Unwritten Rule - never gift a lady an appliance.
Vacuum cleaner was NOT what that lady wanted, she was MAD upon seeing that box once the paper undone.
She changed her tune once the gun was seen inside the box. Her hubby went from <expletive> to the most wonderfullest hubby ever.
*grin*
Excercise bikes are not "well recieved" either, especially since the lady just had a baby girl ...
All sorts of "comments" are made seeing that paper undone...
Beretta O/Us do change things, like not having to sleep alone on the couch forever and "you can forget ever attempting to have a son".
*smirk*