atk
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While I haven't read the whole thread, I'm surprised I haven't seen the following advice:
Why not lead her to understand why you want a gun? IIRC, you said that you want it for two reasons:
target shooting
protection
Well, why not start with:
Target Shooting: "Honey, let's watch TV. Oh! They olympics are on! Let's watch." turn to olympics, watch people shooting skeet. "That looks like fun. And I'm told it takes a *lot* of skill."
Make it subtle. Don't push hard. Lead her in the direction you want her to go, but make sure she's the one traveling in that direction.
Protection: "Honey, I was just watching the news. They said that someone was raped two towns over. And I always thought that was a safe place."
Bring up enough of these, on enough days (not all consecutive days!) and start talking about how you're worried about her: "Gee, there's been a lot of crimes like that committed lately. It makes me worry about you - I love you and I don't want to see you get hurt." See how she goes. Don't talk about getting a gun. Talk about her being able to defend herself. Get her into a class where she can begin to understand self defense.
Remember, people who are indoctrinated require time, combined with they're own ability to think, and someone to gently guide them down the path, so that they can figure out reality for themselves.
And then there are some people who will never be convinced.
Why not lead her to understand why you want a gun? IIRC, you said that you want it for two reasons:
target shooting
protection
Well, why not start with:
Target Shooting: "Honey, let's watch TV. Oh! They olympics are on! Let's watch." turn to olympics, watch people shooting skeet. "That looks like fun. And I'm told it takes a *lot* of skill."
Make it subtle. Don't push hard. Lead her in the direction you want her to go, but make sure she's the one traveling in that direction.
Protection: "Honey, I was just watching the news. They said that someone was raped two towns over. And I always thought that was a safe place."
Bring up enough of these, on enough days (not all consecutive days!) and start talking about how you're worried about her: "Gee, there's been a lot of crimes like that committed lately. It makes me worry about you - I love you and I don't want to see you get hurt." See how she goes. Don't talk about getting a gun. Talk about her being able to defend herself. Get her into a class where she can begin to understand self defense.
Remember, people who are indoctrinated require time, combined with they're own ability to think, and someone to gently guide them down the path, so that they can figure out reality for themselves.
And then there are some people who will never be convinced.