I've been down the same road you're on. I've been using Aimpoints for going on 20 years or so. I still had the first one that I bought, until a couple of years ago when the gun that it was on was stolen. The Aimpoint is a rock solid piece of equipment that handles abuse as well as any extruded aluminum tube can. It's really idiot proof too. No buttons to press or adjust. Just twist the switch and it's going. With the latest generation Aimpoints, you don't even need to turn them off. I don't think that I ever turned any of my M3 and later Aimpoints off. I got away from Aimpoints due to failing eye sight, but I still have a butt load of batteries left. I bought a dozen of them with my first M3 and never had to replace the battery.
I really like the reticle in the Eotech. My son loves them. So much so, that I kept buying them, even after they kept breaking. I went through five of them. For what it's worth, they were all N cell and AA models. Maybe the other models are better.
As for running a magnifier, all I can say is that they suck. They are expensive for what they are. They are heavy. They have really short eye relief. The optical quality doesn't come close to being what it should be for the price that you pay.
I wound up going middle of the road. I'm running a 1.5X ACOG TA44S-10. It's a tiny little scope. It has that little bit of extra magnification that made a world of difference for me. The eye relief is really forgiving, to the point of almost being like running a red dot. It isn't picky at all about cheek weld. It also has a reticle similar to that of the Eotech, although it looks at lot cleaner, since it's an etched reticle rather than projected. I don't think that the ACOG in it's mount weighs 8 oz.
If you buy an ACOG, be sure to take a look through the one that you're interested in and take note of the eye relief. Some ACOGs have really short eye relief that makes shooting from awkward positions almost impossible, or at the least, uncomfortable. I hate my 4X. If you want something that will work well up close, but also allow you to shoot out a bit farther, I'd suggest either the TA44S-10 or any one of the TA33 models. The TA33 allow the use of BAC and is a 3X. I'd take the TA33 over a red dot/magnifier combo any day. Since I rarely shoot my carbine with any sort of precision accuracy in mind, the TA44 serves me well. It outperforms the red dots by a wide margin for me. As for as reticle color goes, most prefer green. I like the amber. I want to emphasize trying out an ACOG before you buy. You can't just go by what's published as specs on their website. Those specs are based on what the numbers should be based on the design of the particular scope that you're looking at. It isn't unusual for the scope to behave differently in use and differ from what the published specs say it should be, especially in terms of eye relief. For example, Trijicon list the eye relief on the 1.5X as being 2.5", but it really doesn't tell you that the scope is actually useable as long as you eye is at least 1" from the ocular lens. Anything beyond that and you can see through the scope. With this model 2.5" is just the ideal position. With some of the 4X ACOGs that I've used, the stated eye relief is sometimes a bit off and they are picky about cheek weld.
There was a suggestion of a variable scope. Variables are nice, but won't be nearly as fast as a red dot or one of the smaller ACOGs, because you'll still have to deal with the more finicky eye relief of a traditional tube scope. In any case, considering the options that you've mentioned, that puts you in the price range of some pretty good variables. You can get into a Nightforce 1-4X for around $1200. Personally, as much as I wanted to need a 1-4X scope (I think they look cool), I didn't find much use for it. For me, it was either a PITA dealing with the bulky scope and the eye relief at 1X or 2X (for close up) or it just wasn't enough magnification at 4X when I wanted to really reach out.
Decide what you want the rifle to do. Don't try to build a Jack of all trades rifle. If you do, you're going to find yourself wishing that you had something else most of the time. If you build it for either close up or far out, you'll only wish you had something different half of the time. It's why I have two ARs. I have both halves covered.