Seriously, you need to calm down and allow the information to sink in. For your safety, enjoyment, and desired results it would certainly be in your best interest to do some research and reading of good instructional reloading material. It won't benefit you to allow such an enjoyable hobby, such is this one, to get worked up and fruistrated with the process. And more importantly, your safety should be the primary approach to this hobby which rewuires an open mind and the ability to accept the advice and direction those who have been involved in it for decades. In this hobby we are working with pressures that can very easily inflict serious injury, and even sudden death.
Now if you would like to continue learning this hobby, it will greatly benefit you to first pick up a book, or two, that will lay it out for you in very easy to understand termenology and steps. The book that got me going on the right track was the Speer Reloading #10 ( 1st edition ). Although this book, now and then, does not contain a large number of loads, and those that are contained in it's pages are exclusive to Speer bullets and products for the most part. But as to the introduction and even advanced process of reloading, including fire forming brass, and turning necks down, this instructional manual is deffinitely one of the best for a beginner. I would suggest geting this book and several others that will answer just about any question you may have.
And for those difficult circumstances that come up from time to time, we are here to help if you can humble yourself enough to accept our direction and advice. I think I can safely speak for some of us in stating, that in general we will help you to diagnose issues one may encounter from time to time. But as to teaching the process from scratch, it is something that can be better learned through hands on instuction while utilizing an approved video or book that is considered as authentic, and hopefully published by one or more bullet or powder manufacturer sources.
I sincerely hope you don't allow your frustration to stand in the way of one of the most satisfying hobbies that involve the world of shooting sports.
GS