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Hmm, did you take apart and reassemble the ejector/cylinder assembly for cleaning?
It probably won't damage it but it's sometimes one of the "feel" kind of things that can make the difference. There are just the two contact points front and rear at play, and you take the rear one out of play by pushing it up to flush with the recoil face with the thumbpiece. Does it seem to be moving the right amount?
Can you use a small lever, a screwdriver blade of about the size used to tighten a pair of glasses, to lever the pin that is inside the shroud housing at the forward end of the ejector rod? If there's room to push the pin forward enough to get it free of the ejector housing you might get it open without whacking. This makes for an easy way to put a scratch in your pistol though so do it with care.
If there's damage to the front end of the housing for the centerpin it can sometimes make for a "berm" that pushing the thumbpiece doesn't get the centerpin high enough to clear. These are small movements and it's surprising how little it takes to jam the cylinder closed. (I just had to turn that housing end down .015" and cut a new bevel on my no dash 2 1/2" Model 66, the stainless equivelant of a model 19, to get it so the cylinder would open easily while still locking firmly when closed).
If you do get it open don't close it again unless you're sure that you know what the problem was and that it's fixed.
The change of thread direction was made in 1959 for pretty much all models. The Model 19 began production in 1955 but you said you bought this one new yourself in the 1970's so there shouldn't be any question of which way yours threads - it has lefthand threading, some people might say it's backwards